before i set my boundries and ex was drinking at home, i got so good at listening for the sound his drink made....could tell how full it was by the sound of the ice in it....god, it was bad.......sometimes, i'd go into my bedroom just to get away from the "ice clinking listening" , but then i'd hear him slam-dunk the watery-booze ice leftovers into our sink....i still get sick when hear iced drinks poured into a sink.
god bless
jeri