This is an area that I have to visit all the time. But as time goes on it does seem to get easier and easier. I remember when I first started alanon and learned about detachment I decided that I would no longer phone his cell every night looking for him and asking when are you coming home? It was hard but I finally did quit doing that and feel alot better about it. Later he asked why I don't call anymore? I also don't read too much into what he is saying when he's quacking, I'm starting to wonder if he believes his own lies sometimes?
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