There isn't a lot of people here this time of morning, however they have a place called sober teens which might be helpful to you. I don't know what to tell you really, however I do know that my children were deeply effected from me and there mothers use. WE are now divorced but still I know that it has effected them to this day. I would like for you to know that none of this is your fault. Hope that someone will be around soon that might know something more. I think the link to sober recovery for teens is somewhere also.
Love Vic : bananadan