Originally posted by EmotionalMeg
I am PROUD of my part in HIS reaching bottom
Wow! What a cool way to look at it.
Trying to get them to stop drinking is short-circuiting the process.
They gotta get to that bottom point first.
So, if we love them, we want them to get to the bottom as quickly as possible. That's the goal we should be going for. We're aiming for the wrong thing.
To someone who hasn't been through this, it sounds cruel.
Thanks for easing my guilt trip.