Originally Posted by DesertEyes
nnooooooo. If you don't let them grow up they'll never have kids of their own and you'll never get to be a grandma. My grandkids are the best thing in the world
, worth every problem we had with the kid.
Very true
Originally Posted by DesertEyes
oh yeah, sorry about you being lied to again. It sucks. I used to always blame _me_ when my ex did something like that, now I know better and don't accept the responsibility for _her_ actions. That's big time growth for me and feels great
The only blame I accept is that I should have known better. Everything else is on him. I didn't do anything that would have caused him to lie to me. I'd be just as mad at anyone else if they lied to me. I can't stand that!! He's no one special and I should not feel any differently b/c it was him that lied and not someone else. But I should have known better...and I will the next time I even think about doing something nice for him.