Thank you for your replys. I haven't tried a meeting yet. I am reading some self help books, by Melody Beattie. They are good. All your suggestions are great too. I really try and focus on my daughter age 3. We try and do fun things. Sometimes when I plan on other things for the weekend my H says. Why don't you want to hang out with me. I don't tell him because then it only makes him mad. So, I just go on with my weekend. I am trying to make them busier. Anyway, Thanks again. Snoopy