i know that all of what your saying makes sense, in fact i can be the same way. six years ago my grandfather died, he was just like my dad to me, i wanted to be alone and not talk with anybody.
it's just that now, he's almost acting like he's MAD at me! and i just don't get it, all i know is it hurts because he's making me feel like just by being in the house i'm bothering him. last night he came home early, about 8 oclock, and then went back to work at 1am so he could finish up some stuff while no one was there (he's taking the rest of the week off) he comes up to our room to get dressed, i'm in bed already, and he barely grunts out a "goodbye" and doesn't even give me a hug or kiss, that is not normal for him
i don't know... maybe i'm just being petty, but my feelings are hurt. i think i'm just going to steer clear of the house today, i have an appointment this afternoon, and maybe i'll just stay out for a while.
thank you all for your support and insight
Hector -
FallGirl