((Fallgirl)) I'm sorry for your situation. All I know is when my husband is ready to talk, he talks. If he's never ready, then he's not. I just know that he is going through something and his behavior is not directed at me. Even though I feel that way. It's something I continue to work on. I tend to make everything about me, and how it makes me feel. Instead of thinking that he may be dealing with something the best he knows how.
Hang in there!!