thanks laurie, you're right he was born in 1963, and yes he never shows emotion. he is totally strong for me when i need him, but when something happens in his life he just shuts down!
one of the things that worries me is he's obviously not discussing things with me, but is he talking with anyone? is he just keeping everything bottled up inside? a few of his friends have called here, and i think he's talked to his brother today, so hopefully he is talking with them.
thanks everyone for posting, it helps!
FallGirl