I think your idea of
offering her a ride to detox is good. I'm sure that you are frustrated because you feel like she is out there alone and hurting and there is nothing that you can do for her. But there really is nothing that you can do for her, until she is ready to get help and be serious about it. I'm sorry that all this is going on when your husband isn't around to give you some support. This is a good place to check in for support and encouragement when you need it. I hope that you hear from your Mom soon and that she is ready to get some help.
Peace,
Gabe