Apple - there are many addicts who function well for a while
But eventually it is Jails Institutions or Death
You need to stop obsessing on what an addict is all about - Lies, lies, lies..you are not talking to the person you knew..You are talking to the drug and you will NEVER figure it out....I understand that you are hoping that things will get better if only you can figure it out...But trust me - YOU WON"T !!!!!!
Please focus on the Naranon Forum and you will learn from the other family members and girlfriends of addicts what they went thru, what they are going thru - what their addicts did etc...
You will learn MUCH MORE there...
jj