Thanks for the responses.
I know it's unreal the things they can come out with, "I know I have a problem but I don't want help"
This morning he said "I think I need to wallow in self-pity some more"
I said "Obviously you do."
He says to me "Maybe I'm one of those people who is constitutionally incapable of being honest."
I said "Maybe you are."
Instead of me reverting to my old behaviour of actually having a conversation and trying to be logical against illogic I just gave answers that put it all back in his lap.
Tonight I'm going to a Big Book meeting which will be fun. We read from the Big Book and then discuss what we've read.
Ngaire
"If you've want something you've never had before, you have to do something you've never done before."