When I was very young & a drunk I was very promiscuous
Scary number of partners and I am thankful I am clean of std's. I never felt anything though. It's like all the nerve endings were completely shut off. As I got older, I was much less so, only having 3 partners in the past 15 or so years. Even so, I did take an HIV test just for my peace of mind just a couple months ago.
I feel really good about sex now & I think that is due to being solidly sober, plus I know without a doubt that my partner & I love each other & we are comfortable with everything. Flaws & all. I had a very minimal/non existent sex life for many years & my former partner blamed me & I thought it was indeed "me". Even going to a doctor for help
I turns out I do like sex, I just didn't like it with him.