Msguy

I know that there alternatives to 12 step programs and AA meetings. But what are they, and how do I find them? Any good books, websites, etc?

I know this is a "flashpoint" topic (i.e., people feel very strongly about AA), but any input would be helpful.

Thanks.

paulmh

Try the Secular Forum - there's a sticky at the top of the forum which lists alternatives.

liesagain

Rational Recovery ..........is one non aa na program
good luck in your search

Msguy

Thanks folks.

nandm

The only time I get frustrated with people that use or want to use other recovery methods is when they feel they have to say something negative about A.A. to justify their wanting a different recovery method.

I personally believe there are many ways to recovery and I am glad when someone finds a way that works for them. I just don't feel it is necessary to discourage someone from trying a method by saying negative things about it.

Thank you, I really appreciate the way you worded your question. It shows a lot of maturity on your part. I wish you the best and hope you find a program of recovery that works for you. Sobriety can be great.

mike_mass

Google 'alternatives to 12 step programs'

Grateful Heart

SMART Recovery is a good alternate site. Hope all goes well for you! :-) GH

Ngokpa

LifeRing is another alternative.

Some people, like myself, have trouble with much of AA's language, but use AA as a partial solution. I started in AA, got involved in a Buddhist group (which doesn't involve God), and eventually got into therapy. Alanon was a better place to deal with family issues.

There are some AA meetings in my area called "Godless Heathens."

I don't know much about the alternatives, except they don't have very many meetings.

An interesting take on the steps in "Many Roads, One Journey," my Charlotte Kasl (not sure about the spelling). And the book "Beyond the Influence" is a modern understanding of alcoholism and recovery that I like better than AA literature.

To each his own, as long as it works.