why is nobody answering me? :(
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Substance Abuse can be a little quieter than other forums.
Please don't take it personally
It's best not to have too many threads too - it actually can mean less responses sometimes not more
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Please don't take it personally
It's best not to have too many threads too - it actually can mean less responses sometimes not more
D
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Join Date: Oct 2012
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Ebragimv,
What's happening next Tuesday?
I'm listen to you. Please don't think no one is listening sometimes ppl don't know what to say so tend not to say anything unless it's the wrong thing n offends you.
As Dee suggests, try not to do lots of threads as it cinfuses ppl sometimes especially as there's lots of ppl here. If you stick to a thread ppl can read that n familiarise themselves with what's happening so they can try n give you the best response they feel they can give you.
Please keep posting n reading n try not to feel disheartened about this. Ppl do care about you.
Hugs,
Evey
What's happening next Tuesday?
I'm listen to you. Please don't think no one is listening sometimes ppl don't know what to say so tend not to say anything unless it's the wrong thing n offends you.
As Dee suggests, try not to do lots of threads as it cinfuses ppl sometimes especially as there's lots of ppl here. If you stick to a thread ppl can read that n familiarise themselves with what's happening so they can try n give you the best response they feel they can give you.
Please keep posting n reading n try not to feel disheartened about this. Ppl do care about you.
Hugs,
Evey
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Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: Atlanta
Posts: 31,179
I read your other post, and you may want to check out the Friends & Family/Substance abuse forum.
I've been both the addict (A) and loved one of addicts (codie-codependent) and can only say that until the A wants help? They won't seek it and will usually lash out to anyone who threatens their using. I had to lose darned near everything and everyone to seek recovery.
Hugs and prayers,
Amy
I've been both the addict (A) and loved one of addicts (codie-codependent) and can only say that until the A wants help? They won't seek it and will usually lash out to anyone who threatens their using. I had to lose darned near everything and everyone to seek recovery.
Hugs and prayers,
Amy
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Join Date: Nov 2012
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Thank you so much for all the advice! Yes you can see I'm new to this as it is quite obvious. Next Tuesday I will be seeing my ex boyfriend for the first time since we broke up. We broke up because of college and distance and we talk here and there and the only times he talks to me is at 3 am when he is using. He had never used before but now he is using everything but injecting himself. I thought there was some way I can help when I see him but doesn't look like I should get my hopes up for that.
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Join Date: Jul 2012
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Ebra please take care of yourself and focus on YOU.
He isn't the same person that you fell for, and if he only talked to you at 3am when he was using, well honestly you deserve SO SO SOOOOO much more than that. You really do.
I wish you all the luck,
Maylie
He isn't the same person that you fell for, and if he only talked to you at 3am when he was using, well honestly you deserve SO SO SOOOOO much more than that. You really do.
I wish you all the luck,
Maylie
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