zerothehero

You might want to check if there is a SMART Recovery meeting in your area. They accept anyone from thinking about cutting back, quitting, or already sober and wanting to stay that way.

PhoenixJ

Going cold turkey can be distressing, or dangerous..depending. I had seizures and lost my car license. Perhaps, if you plan to stop seriously..see your GP and work out a tapering regime of valium...maybe go to your docs every day for 5 days (the usual detox time).
AA meetings- you do not have to share. Just say you will share by listening.
Support to you