Fantabulous Secular Connections Check-in Part IV
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Originally Posted by ananda 
i'm starting to believe the voice in my head...how do you tell the right from from the wrong one anyways....you know maybe sometimes the negative voice is right...right...I mean we aren't all perfect are we????
Why don't you tell us what's going on?
No, nobody's perfect , that would be a bore. So what's up?
I'm always trying to quit smoking and whenever people ask me why I don't quit completely I say because if I did then I would be too perfect! and nobody wants to be around a perfect person.
Hope everyone has a wonderful safe weekend. I'm going to change my haircolor and work on refinishing a chest.
Judy
Hope everyone has a wonderful safe weekend. I'm going to change my haircolor and work on refinishing a chest.
Judy
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sorry cali-flower......
didn't mean to worry.....I'm not considering drinking...just taking a look at what might be wrong with me....how i may be the cause of my own problems....I think it's a good thing to do, but don't know how to do it well without falling into the all or nothing....i am scum sort of thinking...
hitting a middle ground, being able to say..well i truley suck in this area without getting into self hatred seems hard.
Although i don't want to drink...i do believe that if we don't deal with this kind of problem we end up drinking to get away from it somehow...so...just dealing with how to keep myself as far as possible from a drink
Yeah (grin) I would love to be perfect.....but apparently not in this lifetime...and since it's the only one i believe in i guess i'm stuck with what is
didn't mean to worry.....I'm not considering drinking...just taking a look at what might be wrong with me....how i may be the cause of my own problems....I think it's a good thing to do, but don't know how to do it well without falling into the all or nothing....i am scum sort of thinking...
hitting a middle ground, being able to say..well i truley suck in this area without getting into self hatred seems hard.
Although i don't want to drink...i do believe that if we don't deal with this kind of problem we end up drinking to get away from it somehow...so...just dealing with how to keep myself as far as possible from a drink
Yeah (grin) I would love to be perfect.....but apparently not in this lifetime...and since it's the only one i believe in i guess i'm stuck with what is
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Originally Posted by ananda
Yeah (grin) I would love to be perfect.....but apparently not in this lifetime...and since it's the only one i believe in i guess i'm stuck with what is
Just need to reach out... 
Feeling rather insecure and having trouble thinking one day at a time; you know, always thinking 6-8 months in the future. And feeling disconnected.
Mmyep that's all.
Feeling rather insecure and having trouble thinking one day at a time; you know, always thinking 6-8 months in the future. And feeling disconnected.
Mmyep that's all.
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Join Date: Mar 2009
Location: Northern California
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I even drove right past my meth dealer's house... right there, so close. But I didn't do it. God I wanted to. I had cash in hand. But I chickened out, basically. Thank Whoever I'm a chicken.
Today I went to the lake and walked 2.5 miles down a 7.5 mile trail then turned and came back because it was getting dark. So a 5-mile walk. It felt really good and I'm in a much better mood for it.
Today I went to the lake and walked 2.5 miles down a 7.5 mile trail then turned and came back because it was getting dark. So a 5-mile walk. It felt really good and I'm in a much better mood for it.
Do you admire anyone who does meth?
Do you admire anyone who commits themselves to fitness?
You are replacing destructive behavior that will ruin you life with behavior that will make you feel better and make your life more fulfilling.
Liberating, isn’t it?
I just love that little guy he is sooo cute!
Today was good to start not good in the middle and not too bad at the end of the night! Ive had quite the range today. So thankful to be feeling better.
I hope everyone has a fab day tomorrow! :ghug
Clever Yak
Originally Posted by vividserenity
I just love that little guy he is sooo cute!
His eyes remind me of buttcheeks..just a thought.
I like this one better:
I'm getting sleepy, because it's so dark outside due to clouds and rain..
:ghug3 Im sorry J, I hope you are sleeping well right now.
pssst...that is his face...the little guy only has a head, I think he may be an influence on my guy so just dont use them together ok? lol
Gotta Love Him....
pssst...that is his face...the little guy only has a head, I think he may be an influence on my guy so just dont use them together ok? lol
Gotta Love Him....
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Originally Posted by allport
I'm suffering from cravings really badly can anyone help?
(((allport)))
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How about if you go out for a walk? Is there something eating at you that you want to get off your chest or just cravings? I was told once that a craving only lasted an average of 4 minutes. The thing is you have to do something else to sort of forget it .
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Still here. Was out of town for the weekend... and what can I say? I love the fact that where I was has no internet and my cell phone hardly gets a signal. Sometimes life is just better that way.
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