How do addicted people view the people helping them learn How to Recover?
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Originally Posted by MIndfulMan
Tough if your parents were abusive alcoholic drug addicts.
Your sentiments are largely a rehash of the very same ones raised early on in the original AVRT discussion thread, and which were wisely addressed at the onset. I view it largely as a diversion, personally.
Even Jon Heller, who founded Sober Recovery, despite his disagreements with Jack's ideas, nevertheless stated in his posts on the RR forums that Jack was onto something with AVRT. I would have to search through the RR forum archives to find it, but it is in there somewhere.
There is a certain amount of acceptance that happened, even though it was formally to a "Higher Power." That jazz didn't work for me at all. Try doing Step 2 and 3 when you're a stone cold agnostic and the idea of moving your locus of control externally is anathema. I'm sure I'm largely preaching to the choir here, and is why I stopped going to 12 Step meetings.
He has his personal beliefs, certainly, but OTOH, he's far more reasonable than many would make him out to be. Conversely, without his 'dogmatic' approach, I'm not certain that the space for the 'alternatives' would even exist. Someone had to do what he did in order to make change possible.
Something to consider.
Even Jon Heller, who founded Sober Recovery, despite his disagreements with Jack's ideas, nevertheless stated in his posts on the RR forums that Jack was onto something with AVRT. I would have to search through the RR forum archives to find it, but it is in there somewhere.
I don't intrinsically value any recovery method over any other. Different approaches work for different people. A synthesis of many approaches is what works for me.
If there are things I disagree with about any particular approach I'm pretty sure I'm free to espouse them. Every organization has its share of BS.
Jack believes in G-d devoutly, from what he's written, yet his method does not place finding G-d as an obstacle to recovery, or encourage atheists to convert in order to recover. That's more than can be said for many ardent secularists or ardent religionists.
He has his personal beliefs, certainly, but OTOH, he's far more reasonable than many would make him out to be. Conversely, without his 'dogmatic' approach, I'm not certain that the space for the 'alternatives' would even exist. Someone had to do what he did in order to make change possible.
Something to consider.
He has his personal beliefs, certainly, but OTOH, he's far more reasonable than many would make him out to be. Conversely, without his 'dogmatic' approach, I'm not certain that the space for the 'alternatives' would even exist. Someone had to do what he did in order to make change possible.
Something to consider.
He is also not singularly responsible for the secular recovery movement, although he certainly had an influence in the late 80s through the mid-90s. 12 Step is only half the "recovery" game in Europe and Australia, unlike here in the US. There are many other approaches to recovery that aren't based on 12 Step. Or God, for that matter.
So he's not "ardent." So what.
It has to do with item #12 in GerandTwine's original informed consent post that started this thread:
And with your question earlier:
He is saying that you don't need to find a new design for living, or a new way of life, in order to recover from substance addiction. You can stay who you are, and recover nonetheless.
12. Your own native beliefs and original family values are the best ones upon which to base addiction recovery.
And with your question earlier:
He is saying that you don't need to find a new design for living, or a new way of life, in order to recover from substance addiction. You can stay who you are, and recover nonetheless.
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