Hope

This is the worst day that I have ever had in sobriety but I know I will get through it sober. I went to visit my grandparents yesterday and I found out that my grandpa has been in ICU for the past week. That is the first I had heard about that. Last Monday night, he had to have emergency surgery and after the surgery, he was non-responsive. We don't know what is going to happen.

I am torn apart inside. It just hurts.....really hurts.

Please pray for my grandpa.

miss communicat

Lollipop

Hope.....

Sweetie, I am so sorry!!!! You are in my thoughts, Be strong hun, you can do this, we are all right here with you, keep posting!!!!!! PM if you need me, I will check back every so often just in case!!!
Love Liss

lulu70

Prayers on their way!

nogard

prayers and a few billion 's

Kevin

Malcolm

My thoughts are with you. Don't forget to take care of yourself.

Luckyv2

Sorry to hear about that Cheryl, that is really I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. This might be a good time to relax Cheryl, easy does it right now. Take care of yourself, that is the most important thing that you can do for you or anyone.

Love Vic

Smyle

Oh Cheryl I am so sorry you have to go through this....you and your grandpa are in my prayers !!!!!

Please take care of yourself and keep coming here for support !!!!!

Jupiter2

Hi Cheryl,

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your grandpa. It really hurts now, but you can get through this. Hang in there.

Jup.

Hope

Thank you all for the prayers and for the support! I really appreciate it. This is such a painful and difficult time but I know that God is with my grandpa and all of us. I'm holding up ok... really hurting but I'm ok. I find comfort in knowing that God is in the midst.

Thanks again for the support.

Love,

Cheryl

CarolD

I find a lot of comfort in Psalms 23
during bad times.

Take care of yourself...God is in charge

wingsfree

Prayers.....(((((Cheryl)))))

2dayzmuse

(((Cheryl)))

REZ

Prayers for you. This too shall pass. Be grateful you are not drinking/using--life would be much worse.

janeeyre

I'm so sorry about your grandpa. I'll pray for you, him, and the rest of your family.

Arura

Dearst Hope, Your in my thoughts and Prayers, as you know my Gran is also still, in hospital,Shes getting worse, they have amputated it 3 times now. How far can they go...?
So she has said no more surgery! Which i do not blame her for.
Its about respecting there wishes too,!
I did drink on that...?
Be strong Honi were thinking of you...

kali ma

You and your family are in my thoughts.

Hope

My grandpa doesn't look good at all. He still isn't responding. He is unable to feed himself or talk. OMG, this hurts!!!!!!!

The doctor hasn't said anything about why he hasn't came out of this yet.

All I do know is that he was ok last weekend which was the last time I saw him before the surgery. We sat down and had dinner at the table together and he looked at me like he was so proud of me. He smiled and winked at me and he told me that I looked better than he has seen me look in a long time. He said that I was glowing and that I looked so happy. I will always remember that he looked like he was proud of me. When I left last Sunday, I gave him the biggest hug. That was the last time I saw him before he ended up having to have surgery.

I am grateful for all of the support that I have received. This is so hard on me.

Love,

Cheryl

NYCGirl

My thoughts and Prayers are with you

Sugah

I'm going through a difficult time with my dad now, too, Cheryl. We're preparing for the end. I don't know how old your grandfather is or what kind of life he's had, but I do know that there's one thing both you and I can be grateful for: when we both look back on this time, regardless of the outcome, we can know that we were sober, present and aware of what's going on. We're not building a future regret that we gave in to what is easy and numbed ourselves.

I will keep your grandfather in my prayers. Please keep my daddy in yours.

Peace & Love,
Sugah