Notices

Hi to all from Australia

Thread Tools
 
Old 07-24-2005, 10:46 PM
  # 1 (permalink)  
Member
Thread Starter
 
ertaka's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: Queensland Australia
Posts: 15
Hi to all from Australia

Hello to all,
I have finally hit rock bottom and it has finally hit me that if I continue drinking , I am going to lose everything. My wife, my beautiful daughters and maybe even my life.My drunking has spiralled out of control to the point that I drink to blackout stage every time I drink. Its time to wake up to myself and stop kidding myself that I can drink responsibly. I can't , its as simple as that.
I look forward to participating in this forum. Good luck to all and see yous later.

Blowing off steam.

Greg.
ertaka is offline  
Old 07-24-2005, 10:54 PM
  # 2 (permalink)  
Member
 
Join Date: Jun 2005
Location: Detroit MI
Posts: 51
Hey welcome. Admitting you have a problem= very good. You should be proud of yourself.
Carchick4life is offline  
Old 07-24-2005, 11:04 PM
  # 3 (permalink)  
Future Philanthropist
 
2tough2die's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: Philadelphia, PA
Posts: 233
Welcome to SR!

Jump right in and blow off whatever steam you like. Whatever it takes to keep coming back!
2tough2die is offline  
Old 07-25-2005, 12:50 AM
  # 4 (permalink)  
everything is already ok
 
nogard's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2005
Location: Melbourne Victoria Australia
Posts: 19,793
Hi ertaka,


Welcome to SR, there are a few of us here from Oz. I am in Melbourne. Your in teh right place keep coming back and posting.

nogard
nogard is offline  
Old 07-25-2005, 07:42 AM
  # 5 (permalink)  
Forward we go...side by side-Rest In Peace
 
CarolD's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2002
Location: Serene In Dixie
Posts: 36,740
Welcome

Greg....

Those blackouts are a sign of middle stage alcoholism.
This info is from a factual 'handbook' on alcoholism...

'Under The Influence' by Dr. James Milam & K. Ketcham

can be ordered from Amazon. They also have

'Beyond The Influence' by Ketcham.

Best money I ever spent!

So glad you are here with us...
CarolD is offline  
Old 07-25-2005, 09:05 AM
  # 6 (permalink)  
My Boss is a Jewish Carpenter
 
hector's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2004
Location: Western Canada
Posts: 338
Hi, Ertaka. Big hugs. Warm welcome.

I've been sober over sixteen years, better lead with that. I joined AA at age 33. I'll be 50 next month.

I'm living on borrowed time. If I had kept drinking like I was, I'd be dead now. No doubt in my mind.

I couldn't and can't do it without Alcoholics Anonymous. I need to associate with people who have the same disease - an allergy of the body combined with an obsession of the mind - and the same cure - complete abstinence sustained by ongoing spiritual work.

Look up AA in the phone book, or online. Be persistent, it's there. Meanwhile, here's a few Slogans to help you now:
One day at a time.
Think, think, think.
Easy does it.
But for the grace of God.
(End of slogans)

AA's Tradition Three: The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop drinking.

Get your body to a meeting, the mind will follow.

Remember, I'm pulling for you. We're all in this together.
hector is offline  
Old 07-25-2005, 04:04 PM
  # 7 (permalink)  
Member
Thread Starter
 
ertaka's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: Queensland Australia
Posts: 15
Thanks heaps for the replies, I'm feeling positive and ready for the difficult time ahead. I know I can do this , as long as I accept the support that is offered to me.I need to give staying sober my highest priority and be aware of the many temptations to kid myself that I can just have a few drinks.That has always been my downfall. I have given up in the past ,for months at a time, only to deceive myself that I am cured,and can control myself. The only way I can control it, is not to have any,zip, zero, none at all.

Bye for now,

Ertaka.
ertaka is offline  
Old 07-25-2005, 04:15 PM
  # 8 (permalink)  
Member
 
michski's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2004
Location: California
Posts: 972
Welcome Greg!

Enough is enough... hope you succeed in putting your wife and kids in first place!


Michele
michski is offline  
Old 07-25-2005, 04:56 PM
  # 9 (permalink)  
We all need each other.
 
lulu70's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2004
Location: The road of happy destiny.
Posts: 2,294
Smile

Hello Greg--Just wanted to add my welcome. Sounds like you are really ready to start making some changes in your life. Glad you found us!!

Hugs--
lulu70 is offline  
Old 07-26-2005, 03:54 AM
  # 10 (permalink)  
everything is already ok
 
nogard's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2005
Location: Melbourne Victoria Australia
Posts: 19,793
Well done Greg and your thinking is right, No first Drink, there is no controlling it so just don't pick up the first drink.

nogard
nogard is offline  

Currently Active Users Viewing this Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 
Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off





All times are GMT -7. The time now is 10:05 PM.