Sick of it!
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Join Date: Jun 2005
Location: Menifee, CA
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Sick of it!
Can anyone who is married or living w/a spouse that is a user of meth "speed" and tell me what they go thru. I know all the signs but cannot get my other half to listen to what I go thru......Please help me!!!!
doing the inside job
Join Date: Sep 2004
Location: planet happy
Posts: 542
Hi desperate,
Sorry that you are going thur what your going thur.
It's was pretty insane,draining and heart breaking for me.
Emotional hang overs and more.
Reach out to others.
Try the family section.
I started reserching on co-dependent.
I had to accept that fact, but it was a begining of healing for me.
The book I came across was LOVE IS A CHOICE.
It gave me some type of understanding and answers of whaT was
happening or going on with me.
It was hard to let go and and detached myself emotionally.
We had already gone thur numerouse seperations, but it was
a cycle of co-dependent/addiction that we were living in and
didn't even know. It got worst and worst. You name it...losts
after lost. Defeats after defeat. Heart aches after heart aches.
A Crytal lake that GOD keeps all my tears...I suppose.
A lot of hard, hard decisions, but ultimately for me,
I had to end the relationship. It took me over two years to get
to that piont. I was desperate. I was beyound sick and tired
of sick and tired. But found myself back in the cycle of co-dependent
again, and again.
Just less than 4 months ago . I was recieving phone calls
or threats of her ending her life everyday. All I would do
was ask people to pray for her and me. I tried everything else.
I had to step aside.
Prayers works. I witness the miracle.
She has over 90 days clean and sober.
But more improtant...I stopped working on her and FOCUS
on me and work on my problems. I reach out for help
here and everywhere. I 'm getting better and healing everyday .
Sorry that you are going thur what your going thur.
It's was pretty insane,draining and heart breaking for me.
Emotional hang overs and more.
Reach out to others.
Try the family section.
I started reserching on co-dependent.
I had to accept that fact, but it was a begining of healing for me.
The book I came across was LOVE IS A CHOICE.
It gave me some type of understanding and answers of whaT was
happening or going on with me.
It was hard to let go and and detached myself emotionally.
We had already gone thur numerouse seperations, but it was
a cycle of co-dependent/addiction that we were living in and
didn't even know. It got worst and worst. You name it...losts
after lost. Defeats after defeat. Heart aches after heart aches.
A Crytal lake that GOD keeps all my tears...I suppose.
A lot of hard, hard decisions, but ultimately for me,
I had to end the relationship. It took me over two years to get
to that piont. I was desperate. I was beyound sick and tired
of sick and tired. But found myself back in the cycle of co-dependent
again, and again.
Just less than 4 months ago . I was recieving phone calls
or threats of her ending her life everyday. All I would do
was ask people to pray for her and me. I tried everything else.
I had to step aside.
Prayers works. I witness the miracle.
She has over 90 days clean and sober.
But more improtant...I stopped working on her and FOCUS
on me and work on my problems. I reach out for help
here and everywhere. I 'm getting better and healing everyday .
the girl can't help it
Join Date: Apr 2004
Location: splendraville
Posts: 5,599
(((DW))))
Welcome! One thing you can be sure of is that he will not listen if he is using. Try to talk to him when he is straight. His using is not about you it is about him and even sober he may not want to listen to you.
Welcome! One thing you can be sure of is that he will not listen if he is using. Try to talk to him when he is straight. His using is not about you it is about him and even sober he may not want to listen to you.
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