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Big Man! We are family--I got all my sistas with me--put yo baby on when she needs the 411 from her big sisters out here. One the for real side--Your girls have a great chance to grow up knowing what a "good" man is all about--and will pick a hero (not a zero) when the time comes (I know BE--when they are 30). Sure tickles me to check your reactions. You totally made my day--it keeps hope alive--that there are good guys out there who care about their kids and are making it one day at a time!
P.S. BE--the fact that your daughter is comfortable talking to you about these things is a huge validation that you are a righteous man. Having grown up with a pervert for a Father, it touches my heart to know your girls are so safe and well cared for. Right on. Big Blessings for the Big E--Queenshenique
Originally Posted by QueenShenique
Your girls have a great chance to grow up knowing what a "good" man is all about--and will pick a hero (not a zero) when the time comes
Well
I hope so because I would hate to drop the zeroes for her. Maybe not hate to drop them but you know what I mean. Noone ever let me know if it was ok to post their picture so I hope this ok. Yes they are mixed by the way. this picture is of my 2 oldest and it's pretty old but it's my favorite. This is Olivia and Nichole
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perbear
Join Date: Jun 2005
Location: Saskatoon Saskatchewan
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Sounds like you got some great advice form all. I have a daughter that is 17 now and I have gone through the the different stages with her and as uncomfotable as it is in the begining it does get easier. It is great that your daughter is comfortable with you. My daughter has talked to me about her time of the month and now has even been comfortable to talk to me about birth control and sex. I worked in a treatment home for teenage girls and had no choice but to take them shopping for all sorts of unmentionables but the ladies are right the department store sales ladies will make it a lot easier for you. As time moves on by the time your next daughter reaches that age you will be an old pro! Take care and keep it light! You will survive!
Those are some pretty babies--the little one reminds me of Faery Queen's baby--Ella. Shoot Big E--by the time the baby is ready--you gonna be a pro--ain't no mile for a stepper! Just keep demonstrating what a righteous man is like and they have a good chance of not "settling" or picking the loser out the bunch, y'know. BE you got an extended family already--we gonna wanna see the ballet pictures, the report cards, the homework assignments, the prom dress--graduation -right on down the line. They are gonna be some "fine" little women--so, teach them to be queens while they are young. Teach 'em what Aretha said--R-E-S-P-E-C-T. Gotta get it, or ain't going no where. Are ya' feelin' me? Blessings, Queenshenique
Originally Posted by BigEzell
Seriously very serious. She promised me when she was 6 she wouldn't date. I have that handled.
I have a feeling you will survive this girl stuff just fine. Remember what doesn't kill us, only makes us stronger. Three girls, huh? Bless you BigE, I'm impressed. Your greatest advantage would be to love those girls so much, that any guy "less than"...just won't do.
But hey, you probably won't have to worry about that for a while. (at least a few months or so )
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