Day 1 again.
I'm so happy you joined us MKRN - & that you want to change your life.
I drank 30 yrs. & wasted a lot of time insisting I could control the amounts I drank. It was never possible, and I became completely dependent on alcohol. I was drinking all day, every day when I came to SR years ago. The welcome I received here made me feel instantly less anxious about quitting. I found the courage to quit after posting & reading here. I knew I was no longer alone. That meant everything.
We know you can get free, MKRN. Stay with us.
I drank 30 yrs. & wasted a lot of time insisting I could control the amounts I drank. It was never possible, and I became completely dependent on alcohol. I was drinking all day, every day when I came to SR years ago. The welcome I received here made me feel instantly less anxious about quitting. I found the courage to quit after posting & reading here. I knew I was no longer alone. That meant everything.
We know you can get free, MKRN. Stay with us.
Welcome!! I had many day ones over the years, and my last one was January 1, 2016. I was feeling very much like you are now.
The people on this forum helped me get sober. I joined the January 2016 class, and that was very helpful, because everyone was in the same place as I was. I also posted on the 24 hour thread. The support I received from both of those threads and any posts I made was incredible.
I promise it gets better, and I promise it is worth it. ❤️
The people on this forum helped me get sober. I joined the January 2016 class, and that was very helpful, because everyone was in the same place as I was. I also posted on the 24 hour thread. The support I received from both of those threads and any posts I made was incredible.
I promise it gets better, and I promise it is worth it. ❤️
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Day 3, just have a headache. I am really trying to talk the AV voice down. In my mind I am thinking I can drink again, I can control it, I can't do this forever, life will be no fun. We are taveling from the US to Ireland in June and I know I am going to want to have a beer. That is going to be a challenge. But am just taking it one day at a time. Today I will not drink. I am already at home and about to go and work in my yard.
MKRN, just because you know you will want to have a beer doesn't mean you have to follow through with the thought. I haven't had the pleasure of visiting Ireland yet, but if I was going, I'd be planning to walk on a lot of the beautiful beaches. I'd also plan to check out a lot of the historical sites. Making lifestyle changes to support my recovery was crucial for me. Plan ahead and make a decision you will not drink, no matter what.
Day 3, just have a headache. I am really trying to talk the AV voice down. In my mind I am thinking I can drink again, I can control it, I can't do this forever, life will be no fun. We are taveling from the US to Ireland in June and I know I am going to want to have a beer. That is going to be a challenge. But am just taking it one day at a time. Today I will not drink. I am already at home and about to go and work in my yard.
Congratulations, DDog for making it over that hurdle. The temptations can pop up any time in early recovery - but you were prepared.
It took me a long time to admit there would never be control. I spent many years insisting I could moderate. I'm so glad we no longer delude ourselves.
Well done on reaching 15 days sober - be proud.
It took me a long time to admit there would never be control. I spent many years insisting I could moderate. I'm so glad we no longer delude ourselves.
Well done on reaching 15 days sober - be proud.
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Made it through the funeral today, gave away a bottle of wine I had recently bought, watched my friend's three young kids (her father was the person who passed) so she could go hang with her family that came into town, and successfully spent my first Friday night in ages sober. I am still taking it a day at a time, but day 5 is done.
Welcome MKRN. It must have been a tough first week for you. So sorry you had this loss but good that you were there sober to support your friend.
Keep posting, reading and come here every day for help when needed. I found myself that this community was and still is a great help for me. It was another day 1 back then and finding people who understood and knew what i felt what i was going through was all the encouragement i needed.
As for your trip to Ireland there are so many things to do that don't involve the pub which i only recently began to discover again myself, i hope you enjoy your upcoming trip here.
Keep posting, reading and come here every day for help when needed. I found myself that this community was and still is a great help for me. It was another day 1 back then and finding people who understood and knew what i felt what i was going through was all the encouragement i needed.
As for your trip to Ireland there are so many things to do that don't involve the pub which i only recently began to discover again myself, i hope you enjoy your upcoming trip here.
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Al48 thanks for that, we are so excited. The only alcohol based tour my travel agent has planned is the Jameson Distillery. I am not a fan of whiskey and I should be good with that. I do appreciate how things are made so it will be interesting. Any tips for our visit? I am just taking one day at a time and putting one foot in front of the other.
Hawkeye13, the girls made it home safely from the prom and I did not have to go and pick them up from the after party. I told them I would no questions asked and waited on standby. It was tough staying up so late, but did that all the time while drinking, so weird how drinking even changes our perception of time. I was able to be a responsible adult for my children and her friends and that felt great.
Day 7 and still having night sweats but other than that my symptoms are minimal thank goodness. Have not made it to a week in at least 3 years so cheers to that. Hope everyone is having a lovely sober day!
Hawkeye13, the girls made it home safely from the prom and I did not have to go and pick them up from the after party. I told them I would no questions asked and waited on standby. It was tough staying up so late, but did that all the time while drinking, so weird how drinking even changes our perception of time. I was able to be a responsible adult for my children and her friends and that felt great.
Day 7 and still having night sweats but other than that my symptoms are minimal thank goodness. Have not made it to a week in at least 3 years so cheers to that. Hope everyone is having a lovely sober day!
7 days free of it - what wonderful news, MKRN.
I would love a re-do of my trip to Europe years ago. I wasn't sharp - numb half of the time - & missed doing a lot of things I meant to. You'll have a clear head to take in everything - it sounds very exciting. Such a beautiful place.
I would love a re-do of my trip to Europe years ago. I wasn't sharp - numb half of the time - & missed doing a lot of things I meant to. You'll have a clear head to take in everything - it sounds very exciting. Such a beautiful place.
[QUOTE=MKRN;7930350]Al48 thanks for that, we are so excited. The only alcohol based tour my travel agent has planned is the Jameson Distillery. I am not a fan of whiskey and I should be good with that. I do appreciate how things are made so it will be interesting. Any tips for our visit?
Cobh is a must with you being so close. Its a lovely town with lots of history and the last port of call for the Titanic. Great tours there.hope you have a great time.
Cobh is a must with you being so close. Its a lovely town with lots of history and the last port of call for the Titanic. Great tours there.hope you have a great time.
I have done the Jameson tour and it will be OK—just don’t raise your hand at the beginning when they ask for volunteers because those are the people who do the tasting at the end if it is the same. The tour itself, and the surrounding area, are very interesting alcohol-free. I also suggest eating before you go, taking some snacks and a soft drink in your bag in case you get cravings.
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