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Cityboy 04-28-2023 05:28 AM

Reid, I wonder if they can change the seat. Perhaps there is an after-market seat available that's easier on the back.

Reid82 04-28-2023 05:50 AM


Originally Posted by Cityboy (Post 7927192)
Reid, I wonder if they can change the seat. Perhaps there is an after-market seat available that's easier on the back.

Yes, this was the first thing I thought of too but the car is quite low so not sure if would help much. The doctors and a few other people with similar back issues have recommended a SUV type
vehcile moving forward.

MLD51 04-28-2023 06:27 AM

Woo Hoo, Weasel in the house!! Great to see you!

I'm late to the party this week. Lots going on in my life. Stress level and anxiety are high. I'll get through it. I'll have to go for lots of walks and limit my exposure to loud and busy atmospheres. The older I get, the more I realize that quiet and calm places really help me not get too wound up. I went to bed early last night and expected to be awake half the night, but I guess all the worrying yesterday wore me out, and I got a full eight hours for the first time that I can remember. Glorious.

Reid, I hope you can get the car situation sorted. I know how little it can take to set off the bulging disc. I have one in my upper back, and there have been times that I can barely function for a few days after it gets fired up.

venuscat 04-28-2023 06:41 AM


Originally Posted by Alpine (Post 7927134)
Free, I could not have said it better. At first it was fun and enjoyable, then I turned to it out of frustration or anger which only made me in the end far more angry, anxious, etc. I thought it was a coping mechanism which was completely wrong and the exact opposite. It only made things worse my life went into a deep dark hole that was darn hard to climb out of. Thanks again for your great insight and comments.
I am here to be sober no matter what.

Free didn't say that at all; CB did.

Reid82 04-28-2023 06:55 AM

Also, I haven't been on much lately but is the 'thanks' button gone for good? I knew there were technical issues with it months ago?

CBS62 04-28-2023 09:28 AM

Hey Weekenders! Thanks Mags. I am in!

Reid I hear you on back pain. I too have bulging discs in my lower back. I have chronic pain. I try to manage it with stretching, core strengthening, acupuncture and massage. I hope you feel better soon.

Been feeling pretty sad lately because it was just the first anniversary of my mom's death on April 22. Also, lost my brother right before her. I am trying to honor her by being strong. No urge to drink really. Feeling like my sober muscles are quite strong.

Looking forward to a beach vacation next week. It is a good time to go because I am caught up at work. I will try to check in more often here.

Robbie64 04-28-2023 09:32 AM


Originally Posted by Reid82 (Post 7927226)
Also, I haven't been on much lately but is the 'thanks' button gone for good? I knew there were technical issues with it months ago?

Sadly it looks like it may have gone for good although it is on a "to do" list of items to fix. I believe the problem is connected to a forum software upgrade which broke a lot of customisations that the tech people had put in place over the years for SR.

Mags1 04-28-2023 10:58 AM

Thanks again Weasel! Good to see you. :wave:

Hi Bim. :wave:

Reid, I hope your back is soon better. And the seat in your car sorted out for better comfort for you. I used to have a works vehicle that gave me chronic back ache and it only stopped when I got another vehicle.

I miss the ‘thanks’ button too. :)


Mags1 04-28-2023 11:06 AM

CBS, it must be a sad time for you with the memory of losing your mum and brother. :hug: Sorry you’re going through it. It’s good your sober muscles are strong.

Marty I hope you have the weekend off work and can get out walking, ease the stress levels.

Our gas is back on an hour ish ago, after being renewed gas pipes on the road. Yaaay. What a palava! :dance8:

Weasel1966 04-28-2023 01:29 PM


Originally Posted by biminiblue (Post 7927191)
((Weasel))

HELLO!!! Always good to see you Bim! Hope you are well!

Getting ready for some grilling as it’s a nice day in Maine. For some, grilling is a trigger as are so many normal things. A cravings life is fleeting compared to ours. They have no power over us as they struggle to catch our attention. Like the crazy person in line at the grocery store, don’t make eye contact. Look away at something else and before you know it you are soberly on your way again. ❤️

Ken

Dee74 04-28-2023 01:48 PM

Good to see you Ken :)

hugs CBS :grouphug:

D

Alpine 04-28-2023 03:05 PM

Suze, this is what Free wrote: "An active addict feels like (insert negative self description here).
We used, so we wouldn’t feel hurt, shame, depressed, lost, lonely……………

In fact, I think that’s ALL active addicts DO feel." So Suze I guess there is a misunderstanding because you mentioned the "We" part. :dunno

venuscat 04-28-2023 03:38 PM

Not to worry, love :hug: s

Alpine 04-28-2023 04:03 PM

No drinking for me.. I need and want to have a clear head and enjoy the weekend despite the pain I am in. Monday I have another MRI to check size of tumor and CT scan of lungs to make sure it has not spread. Tues pre op.

venuscat 04-28-2023 04:09 PM

With you every step love, and sending huge love—you are a warrior!! :hug: s ❤️❤️

RunnerF 04-28-2023 05:33 PM

Alpine Sending you thoughts, prayers and hugs. Hang in.

Offthemast 04-28-2023 05:49 PM


Originally Posted by RunnerF (Post 7927397)
Alpine Sending you thoughts, prayers and hugs. Hang in.

Same here.

Dee74 04-28-2023 05:57 PM

:grouphug:

D

freedomfries 04-28-2023 07:26 PM

Bank holiday weekend. Means nothing to me, I've long since left the normie life behind and I don't think I'll ever return to it.

Free2bme888 04-28-2023 09:41 PM

@Forwards

Please do check in…….

Please don’t let one negative comment/poster fend you off.

We value your presence and posts. 😍


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