LadyBug66

I go to Church and also attend a ladies Bible study. A few mentioned drinking wine at Bible study one night. I was a little shocked when one of them told me that she wished she could stop drinking. She asked me if I drank and I told her no and she actually looked disappointed like she was looking for a drinking buddy. For a long time I looked at a lot of these ladies as "perfect Christians" ..... and they were not the sinner that I am! LOL I don't know if this post makes much sense but it has taken me many years to realize that there is no such thing as the perfect Mom, Wife, Friend, Christian .... ect. I look at people sometimes and judge them, before I really get to know them, by who they hang out with and maybe how they dress et When in real life we are all so imperfect and all have our unhealthy habits or vices. Don't be hard on yourself if you mess up or have an unhealthy habit we are all in this life together to help each other.

Ladysadie

I can relate to what you're saying.