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Old 01-26-2022, 08:31 PM
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What I’ve become after booze - Weekenders 28 - 31 January 2022

What I’ve become after booze - Weekenders 28 - 31 January 2022









“Suddenly we are faced with ourselves, who we really are. Someone we haven't seen or got to know in a very long time. We may not know how to react. To ourselves or to others. Look in the mirror and say glad to meet me.”



An SR member said these words to me when I was newly sober. I was floundering and unsure of me and really didn’t know who I was!



And it’s true! We start again with a sober slate and a dollop of hope and faith. And slowly we begin to find ourselves and find life gets better without the booze.



"Someday" is not one of the days of the week, and "hopefully" is not a plan. Now is the time to start.



If this is your first weekend sober, or many, come join us for support and chat...as we know the weekends can be a struggle sometimes. (We’re here all week too!)






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Old 01-26-2022, 08:36 PM
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I won't call it. Let someone else get it

I'm in for the weekend. I like who I became after I got sober. A more sensible practical logical person, who tries to emulate the philosophy of the Stoics. More compassionate too, and calmer. Contented. Grateful for my blessings. And it's all because I got sober for good.
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I’m in. Shotgun! Thanks Mags and least😉
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Old 01-26-2022, 08:49 PM
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Hi CBS, congratulations on Shotgun
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Old 01-26-2022, 09:43 PM
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End of Day 74. Congrats to all milestones today. Good night from dense foggy Seattle!
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Old 01-26-2022, 11:13 PM
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Goodnight and Congratulations on day 74 calmself.
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Thanks Mags ~ another great topic

I definitely like who I am now....reminds me of a quote that I can relate to:



In for the weekend
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I’m in. Thank you, Mags.
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Old 01-27-2022, 05:59 AM
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I'm in, Thanks, Mags.

Great quote, purps. I like that. I am grateful to not be where I was. I was just thinking this morning about how broken I was and how much pain I was in. I'm not where I want to be in my journey yet, but I'm happy with the progress.
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Thank you Mags! :hugs: I hope your wrist is doing better and your allergy shots have calmed down on your arm. You are such a dear, wonderful friend and I cherish your friendship!
I have an appt with my back/pain doctor this morning. I've been waking up SO early lately, so I got up at 6, showered and am getting ready for my appt.
CBS, so sorry to hear about your mom. Sending healing and as much love as I can. Prayers and peace to you and your mother.
So glad for you all. Have a wonderful day.
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Thanks Mags!

Hello everyone!

This early in sobriety I have become several things:

One who makes loving and caring for herself, a change in gears for sure both physically, mentally, and spiritually a PRIORITY. That means getting rid of toxic people and things in my life. Difficult as those muscles are not used to being used, but it’s getting easier.

’Free’ is now an emotional roller coaster rider. Yep, up, down, fast, slow, in, out, exciting, sometimes nauseating. Ahhhh, but the nauseating isn’t from a secret hangover! I’ll take it! Free cares more about herself, and more about other people.

Im glad to be here, on this journey with all of you.

Thank you all 🤓❤️
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GM from Seattle to everyone! Day 75 starts here.
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Thanks Mags

I'm in for another sober weekend!
Have a good day friends ☼
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In for another sober weekend.

Thank you for your thoughtful opening post Mags. Drinking masks who we are from ourselves mostly. It's much less exhausting being yourself than being an imaginary version of yourself, especially when that imaginary person is the product of alcohol.

First night in my own bed since Sunday. Work has taken me to Bangor in Wales, Shrewsbury and Buxton. Fingers crossed it was worth it.
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I've become someone who takes delight at the smallest of things. Last night when Billie and I were snuggling into bed, she laid down beside me and after getting comfy, she let out a big sigh. I am delighted to make her happy.

I'm also happy as hell to learn that all of Billie's bodily functions are working within normal ranges. She is very healthy for a dog who turned 8 this month. Such good news about my girl.

Got an appt with the gastroenterologist for March 4th. First available appt so I'm glad I made it.
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I’m in for a sober weekend too. Thanks Mags
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Saou, hope the travel work pays off.

Least, I hope that appointment is a productive one.

75 days is super calmself.

Free, I know exactly what you mean, on all counts. The roller coaster comes from actually feeling things that are happening.
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Old 01-27-2022, 09:02 PM
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Saou, a productive week, that’s great!

Least, I’m glad the docs are caring for you. I hope they can sort out your probs.

Purps I love the saying. I’m so thankful I’m not where I used to be.

Love to all Weekenders xxxx
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End of Day 75. Congrats to those who remained sober today. Let's keep going. Good night from Seattle!
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