Back at sobriety
Back at sobriety
It took me a little bit but I’m back. I’ve now been sober 13 days and I’m really trying to keep it that way. I always think a little reward won’t hurt but I always end up down the blackout path.
I’ve been able to think a lot more clearly, and increase overall productivity. It’s amazing how much alcohol takes away from you. All for a few hours of feeling obliterated. Not worth it! 👊🏻
I’ve been able to think a lot more clearly, and increase overall productivity. It’s amazing how much alcohol takes away from you. All for a few hours of feeling obliterated. Not worth it! 👊🏻
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7701979]It took me a little bit but I’m back. I’ve now been sober 13 days and I’m really trying to keep it that way. I always think a little reward won’t hurt but I always end up down the blackout path.
I’ve been able to think a lot more clearly, and increase overall productivity. It’s amazing how much alcohol takes away from you. All for a few hours of feeling obliterated. Not worth it! 👊🏻
I’ve been able to think a lot more clearly, and increase overall productivity. It’s amazing how much alcohol takes away from you. All for a few hours of feeling obliterated. Not worth it! 👊🏻
Hang in there.
"Reward"
"pleasurable high"
Both of these terms are misnomers. The real reward is not a fleeting false sensation, it's the accomplishment of a goal (sober 24 hours) and the "high" is the return of your authentic self. Thinking of the exact thing you are avoiding as the reward is not a helpful mindset. As Dee said, time to rethink the reward system.
That being said, I do like ice cream.
Good on you for your thirteen days, for coming back and posting. Keep it up, you can do this.
"pleasurable high"
Both of these terms are misnomers. The real reward is not a fleeting false sensation, it's the accomplishment of a goal (sober 24 hours) and the "high" is the return of your authentic self. Thinking of the exact thing you are avoiding as the reward is not a helpful mindset. As Dee said, time to rethink the reward system.
That being said, I do like ice cream.
Good on you for your thirteen days, for coming back and posting. Keep it up, you can do this.
It took me a little bit but I’m back. I’ve now been sober 13 days and I’m really trying to keep it that way. I always think a little reward won’t hurt but I always end up down the blackout path.
I’ve been able to think a lot more clearly, and increase overall productivity. It’s amazing how much alcohol takes away from you. All for a few hours of feeling obliterated. Not worth it! 👊🏻
I’ve been able to think a lot more clearly, and increase overall productivity. It’s amazing how much alcohol takes away from you. All for a few hours of feeling obliterated. Not worth it! 👊🏻
It was never fine.
Yes, I agree I should not think of a little glass of wine as a reward for being sober. It’s totally contradicting but yet it’s reality.
I’ve incorporated exercise recently to help keep my body busy. My daily reward was alcohol so coming up with a new reward is a change. It is rewarding to me to be able to speak and act professionally. My moods have changed to where I’m not so snippy which is amazing. I also love that I do not have hangovers and the clarity my brain feels.
If sobriety feels so good why does AV sound so tempting? I know that I don’t want it. I turned into such a bad alcoholic that alcohol didn’t even make me feel good anymore. 15 days strong 💪🏻
I’ve incorporated exercise recently to help keep my body busy. My daily reward was alcohol so coming up with a new reward is a change. It is rewarding to me to be able to speak and act professionally. My moods have changed to where I’m not so snippy which is amazing. I also love that I do not have hangovers and the clarity my brain feels.
If sobriety feels so good why does AV sound so tempting? I know that I don’t want it. I turned into such a bad alcoholic that alcohol didn’t even make me feel good anymore. 15 days strong 💪🏻
Yes, I agree I should not think of a little glass of wine as a reward for being sober. It’s totally contradicting but yet it’s reality.
You can challenge the idea that a drink is a reward, or something desirable.
Re-read your old posts or read around Newcomers forum. There's lots of AV busting reality to be had here.
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