I cant sleep!!! day 4/5 ....my mind is always racing it seems...cravings are really bad.... i hope this phase ends soon........ |
It would take me about a week to ten days to get back to a regular pattern of sleep. Each day it got a little better tho - hang in there try to stay hydrated and away from things like cigarettes and coffee too late in the day. D |
That early recovery anxiety will dissipate. The anxiety was what always sent me back to the bottle. :( But if you hold on and stay sober, the anxiety and racing thoughts will calm down. Hang on! :hug: |
The physical withdrawal taked 5 days.. so you're almost there lonelyfella.. please hold on. The other thing is yeah, no coffee after noon or 2pm. Now that you're not numbing yourself with alcohol, the caffeine will have a greater effect. Sleep might still be a bit wonky for a week or two but caffeine or even sugar can def make it worse. Also exercise saved me. |
Just to let you know, you're not alone. I am starting day 3 and have same thing. Overactive mind and can't sleep. The agitation and over the top anxiety of day 1 has gone, just my normal anxiety now lol. But I haven't gone more than a week without drink in years so don't know what " my normal" anxiety is, if any ,I suppose. I agree physical withdrawal can take 5 days. I usually either drink then, when I am feeling better. Or before then, to try to feel better. This time determined to see what is on the other side of that. Why don't we compare notes after a month and see what difference we find? |
Sleep is important. But it isn't the most important. Deep breaths. Herbal tea. Patience. Healing. |
Hi. You've got some great replies here so far. It's not hard-core as it's herbal but, Melissa Dream at Holland & Barrett is probably the best natural sleep aid you will find, in my opinion. A bit pricey but a good investment I say! |
The herbal teas like Sleepy Time really helped me, even a cup in the morning. Took the edge off the anxiety. There are some teas that will actually help support a sluggish liver. |
It will come in time. How long varies per person. Just stay sober and trust that it will get better. MUCH MUCH Better! |
I have never been a great sleeper, even as a teenager. However, drinking made it much worse. When I quit, I somehow thought it would be a massive instant benefit: not only I would stop having the 3 am awake horrors; I would become the great sleeper I never was. It is so hard to quit drinking that I guess I was expecting to find a lot of respite in other forms of escapisms. With the knowledge I have now I can say my sleeping improved quite fast but I was expecting much more much earlier. The staying awake at 3 full of anxiety, shame and guilt disappeared after one week or so. However, getting into a regular sleeping pattern took months. I am still someone who almost never sleeps more than 5 hours, but it is a good restorative sleep. You have done the worse by far. It may take you a while to realise how much better you are now than a few days ago because we all seem to be a bit impatient when it comes to what we expect from our sobriety. |
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day 4/5 ....my mind is always racing it seems...cravings are really bad.... i hope this phase ends soon........ |
When I got sober I had a really hard time sleeping for a bit. Insomnia. Up too early. Bed too early. I knew that I needed to go through whatever it was I was going through until I normalized. Sleep is good now and there are occasional nights where I have a hard time sleeping depending on what I am going through mentally. Drinking is not an option. Keep on walking forward. You don't drink anymore and you will balance out. Trust the process. |
How's it going today @lonelyfella? |
How are you today lonelyfella? Your first post in this threa was dthe last post you made to SR... hope things are OK? I was going to suggest that you perhaps try and get a bit of fresh air if you haven't been leaving your house. It doesn't get rid of cravings but can help ease them a bit and the exercise may also help you sleep a bit better. |
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