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Old 04-22-2021, 05:06 AM
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Looking for a tribe

Based in Melbourne and out of rehab with 36 days sober today. Very early days for me but I'm going ok. Trying to get to AA meetings when I can but as a single dad with two young kids it's not always easy to get out and meet other people on the same path. I realise that my current circle of friends will never really understand addiction (even though I'm convinced several probably are addicts without really accepting it).

After leaving rehab and going through the most honest, self reflective journey of my life thus far I'm just looking to say hello and connect with other people in the same boat.
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Old 04-22-2021, 05:13 AM
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Welcome MarkMc. Congratulations on your decision for a better way of life. You will find much support here! You are In good hands
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Old 04-22-2021, 06:30 AM
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Welcome!
Great group of people here.
Stick around and keep up the good work
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Old 04-22-2021, 06:45 AM
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Welcome aboard. You will find a lot of support for your cause here. You will also meet some thoughtful, interesting people.
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You're already one of us.

Welcome, I hope you keep posting. There are quite a few Aussies here.
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Old 04-22-2021, 07:18 AM
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Welcome to SR MarkMc
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Old 04-22-2021, 07:29 AM
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Welcome to the TRIBE! Congrats on your sober time. Very commendable.
I look forward to hearing about your journey and we are here for endless support!
You got us!
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Old 04-22-2021, 07:30 AM
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Welcome MarkMc, you will likely find at least some others you will very much relate to, and a goldmine of information. I think SR is the most comprehensive source about recovery available to anyone and people are incredibly supportive. All the best!
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Old 04-22-2021, 08:24 AM
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Yeah, we are a tribe alright, kind of a dysfunctional tribe, but at least you can do this from home. However, SR can be a two edged sword. You may end up spending more time on line in a day than you would at a one hour AA meeting. And when you get so absorbed in a thread, your two kids might be running around poking each other with sharp sticks, or writing on the walls with magic markers.

But welcome.
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Old 04-22-2021, 08:26 AM
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This place is it. Welcome.
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Old 04-22-2021, 08:26 AM
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Welcome, Mark, I'm glad you found us.
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Old 04-22-2021, 09:11 AM
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Welcome friend. You found us, haha.
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Old 04-22-2021, 11:37 AM
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We're definitely tribal, lol. Welcome!
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Welcome to the family Mark! You'll find lots of support and also lots of useful info.
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I found my people here

I’me glad you joined us Mark - welcome

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Old 04-22-2021, 02:52 PM
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Welcome Mark. NSW responding.

You have found a very very noble tribe here.

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It's so good to meet you, Mark. Congrats on your new freedom from alcohol.
When I found SR I'd been drinking for decades. No one in my life understood what I was going through. It meant everything to me when the people here shared their feelings & experiences. I wasn't alone anymore. Hope you'll feel the same.
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Old 04-22-2021, 05:42 PM
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Hello sir!

The internet is the 8th wonder of the world.

This place saved my life.

I would have relapsed 2x so far and both times SR talked me down.

Thanks.
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Old 04-22-2021, 05:52 PM
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Welcome aboard!

This place can be a very powerful stop gap for times you can't make it to a meeting or what not. I used to tap in here when I was travelling for work, etc. and found it extremely helpful - often moreso than meetings.

One foot in front of the other. Keep it simple.

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Old 04-23-2021, 12:06 AM
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Welcome Mark!

we are all in this together. I’m on day 5 of being sober. I have 2 kids 13 and 11. I live in uk. My life choices have more than likely finished my relationship so I am fragile. But every day we move on!

We are your tribe and you are our tribe! Talk to us whenever you need too!
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