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Old 02-28-2021, 07:38 AM
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60 Days Today!

Just wanted to document this milestone and thank everyone for their support. That support does not have to be direct - just posting thoughts, experiences and encouragement to anyone can help everyone.

Got through a rough day yesterday without drinking. Self-talk goes a long way toward staying sober. I think about the pain and shame the next days would bring in exchange for a few hours of liquid anesthesia. Then I think about my continuing improvements in my physical and mental health and how a few hours of perceived pleasure would halt that progress.

Anyway - I'm still sober, and want to let those struggling along with me know that you can keep on keeping on too! Sometimes all it takes is a few minutes of recognizing your addictive voice and working the simple logic to get through those few minutes. A good meal, or some tea or coffee or a walk or exercise can make the difference to stay sober.

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Old 02-28-2021, 07:45 AM
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YAY!
You are doing this and have tools to make it through. Keep on moving forward!
So very proud of your milestone.
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Congrats. My 60 is on Monday. You aren’t lying about the self talk. There are good and bad things in every situation, but one thing that I have on my side is a near empty house full of projects to do and no one to listen to my ramblings when I talk myself out of a craving. Today is my first day on SR and I feel like I finally have someone to confide in. I will be working on my story today. Keep strong. One day at a time.
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Congrats on 60 days.
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Congrats on 60! My 60 is tomorrow...Did a 20 min workout on the elliptical this morning...haven’t done a good aerobic exercise in weeks! Felt a bit crappy at first but as minutes went on i felt better about going on.

Keep posting the milestones and so will I

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Originally Posted by JmSchulte View Post
Congrats. My 60 is on Monday. You aren’t lying about the self talk. There are good and bad things in every situation, but one thing that I have on my side is a near empty house full of projects to do and no one to listen to my ramblings when I talk myself out of a craving. Today is my first day on SR and I feel like I finally have someone to confide in. I will be working on my story today. Keep strong. One day at a time.
Looking forward to reading your story. Congratulations on your 60 day mile stone tomorrow!

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Congrats on 60! My 60 is tomorrow...Did a 20 min workout on the elliptical this morning...haven’t done a good aerobic exercise in weeks! Felt a bit crappy at first but as minutes went on i felt better about going on.

Keep posting the milestones and so will I

Very cool 3 of us are on day 60 within 24 hours of each other. Looking forward to 90 days and beyond!

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Congrats on 60 days John - you too Intrvtd and jmschulte 😃
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Congrats on 60!!!!
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Old 02-28-2021, 01:16 PM
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Great job John, so glad to hear it. You've really made some positive changes in sobriety Keep it going, friend.

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Congratulations on 60 days sober!
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Old 03-01-2021, 03:56 AM
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60 days is so fantastic!!

WELL DONE!

keep it up, it gets better, it gets deeper, the voices of temptation fade..... honor that positive self-talk!!

Thank you, also, for the inspiration. I need to bolster my positive self-talk tools for staving off the temptations of cannabis.... self talk to offset the addictive voice's clever manipulations is key.

Have a great sober day!
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Old 03-01-2021, 11:13 AM
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Well done and Congratulations on 60 days Just John. Keep it up. You are an inspiration to me at 15 days and struggling....but I refuse to pick up. Well done.
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Congratulations John.

Sixty days is an absolute milestone.



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Congrats on 60 days sober! Keep going, it gets better, a little at a time.
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Old 03-01-2021, 05:44 PM
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Well done and Congratulations on 60 days Just John. Keep it up. You are an inspiration to me at 15 days and struggling....but I refuse to pick up. Well done.
Thanks Paddy! We can all help each other no matter how much sober time we have. I remember my first 2 weeks were brutal but I kept on.

My first 30 days I let myself eat anything I wanted to get through it. I think I ate 2 pounds of chocolate covered almonds and drank 2 cases of Bunderburg Ginger Beer - it's a soft drink with real cane sugar from Australia and it is soooo good!

The next 30 days I started focusing on eating healthy and lifting weights. Basically I do what I can as I feel I can. Glad to have you along on this journey of sobriety!

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