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Old 11-30-2020, 12:59 AM
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Live recovery and the material materialises

Look after your mental health, live your recovery program, and the material will materialise.

I’m now in a position materially which I’d have never dreamed of. I never set out this goal, rather I just made sure I lived recovery daily and had/have total faith in the process.

Things work out if you do the right thing.

Grateful to be sober 🙏
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Old 12-01-2020, 12:04 AM
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I love this! I was having a similar thought about my own life recently.
my life is so normal now and not just me planning how I’m going to have my next drink, culminating with so many problems.I have a life that many would envy as I certainly did a year ago. Home is stable, family is happy, healthy... doesn’t get much better. Funny how all it took was not drinking. I achieved so little during my drinking years and in my 1 year sober I have achieved and gained so much.
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Old 12-01-2020, 01:41 AM
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Originally Posted by brighterday1234 View Post
Look after your mental health, live your recovery program, and the material will materialise.

I’m now in a position materially which I’d have never dreamed of. I never set out this goal, rather I just made sure I lived recovery daily and had/have total faith in the process.

Things work out if you do the right thing.

Grateful to be sober 🙏
And the converse; fail to live recovery, or step too far from it day to day.... and the material soon vanishes.

Here's to a sober day!!
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Old 12-01-2020, 08:21 AM
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Old 12-01-2020, 08:56 AM
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Agreed! I was always in credit card debt despite having a great paying job. I had savings in my 401k but had sub-zero for a down payment and lived in a 1 bedroom in the bar / party area of town. I was afraid to quit a job I loathed. It's all changed. Wasn't easy but it also wasn't as bad as I feared.
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Old 12-01-2020, 12:33 PM
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I paid off my credit card debt today. I am debt free other than my mortgage now. That would not have happened if I were still drinking. I have been clawing my way to a better credit rating for several years now by paying on time, every month. At 57, I'm finally feeling like a responsible adult.
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Old 12-01-2020, 03:16 PM
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My experience is very different, and I respectfully remind posters in this thread that we should always be wary of generalising. I was materially/financially well-off during most of my drinking years. Plenty of money to do the things I liked (which included drinking wine in fancy restaurants, for example). And when I got sober before, my financial status didn't improve. It just didn't.

Now I have very little but am glad to be sober nevertheless.
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