BeABetterMan

I must say, I’m turning into quite the ninja. Maybe even too fast. When I even get a sniff of someone I think is not going to be good for me, I 86 them RIGHT NOW. Of course I run the risk of chasing off good people that maybe have a different way of doing things, but I have wasted a lot of time in relationships that were simply bad. Now, if I’m not getting good vibes right out of the gate, I nip it in the bud. I have too much worth. And I won’t let loneliness drive me back to something that’s not right as a crutch.

Disclaimer: if my toxic ass ex were to call and ask me to come over, it would look like a cloud of smoke in those Roadrunner cartoons. I’d be over there so fast and hating myself in the morning. What I mean is I will cut out NEW people so fast. Familiar toxic people I’ll still give a second look to. Lol. I’m doomed.

Dee74

progress not perfection man

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BeABetterMan

My thoughts exactly.

Mizz

I mean, I get it. The toxic ex being familiar and all.
Totally get it.
As Dee stated, progress not perfection.

I've been putting boundaries in place everywhere lately. It's quite the liberation.
A person recently brought all kinds of ******** into my arena. After an engagement or two I decided to block them and move on.

BeABetterMan

I've become addicted to the drama. I'm working on it.

Mizz

me too!