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Old 10-28-2020, 01:24 PM
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The good news about photos is they can usually be recovered from a tablet phone or PC etc. You may have to pay a like to get a professional to look at it but it’s worth it I think.

prayers for your daughter Kaily I hope she finds that window of clarity we both did

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Old 10-28-2020, 01:28 PM
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Thank you Dee, I hope so.
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Old 10-28-2020, 01:30 PM
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Well done Manta and Devizes

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Sao you made me smile “I resent being ordered around by a fridge”
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Old 10-28-2020, 01:43 PM
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Physical distance doesn’t matter so much, it’s the emotional distance that impacts. My mum lived less than 10 miles from me for the 20 years we didn’t speak. I was so angry, I blamed her for a lot of things but rehab taught me that I was just looking for a scapegoat so I didn’t have to take responsibility or accountability for the things I had done. She made mistakes, I can now look back and compare where I was at the same age she was when she made certain choices or did certain things. I now understand that life is not so black and white and we all make mistakes, none of us are perfect. I do have to keep myself in check as whilst logically I have worked it all out, emotionally I do still experience feelings that don’t match with my logical brain. But I try.

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Old 10-28-2020, 01:45 PM
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Saou, is it a smart fridge

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Old 10-28-2020, 01:45 PM
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It such a beautiful thing - the heartfelt sharing that occurs here. I love all of you so much.
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Old 10-28-2020, 01:47 PM
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Leigh you’ve a heart of gold.
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Old 10-28-2020, 02:03 PM
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Leigh you’ve a heart of gold.
couldn’t agree more!! You’re a very special lady xx
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Old 10-28-2020, 02:13 PM
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One thing that stuck with me from rehab was “feelings are not facts”. That is a powerful lesson to learn xx
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Old 10-28-2020, 05:18 PM
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Manta and Mags. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
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Old 10-28-2020, 10:04 PM
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Manta, interesting words ‘feelings are not facts’. I like that though our thoughts come and go, travel through our brain without stopping, unless we dwell on it. I can’t stop thoughts popping into my head but I can decide whether to feed them or ignore them. I guess they only become fact if I act on them, perhaps.
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Old 10-29-2020, 01:50 AM
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New thread here

https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...er-2020-a.html (Would I want to drink ...After all this time sober? Weekenders 30 October-02 November 2020)
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