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Old 09-30-2020, 04:23 PM
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Rosie, good for you! Day 14 is fantastic.
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Old 10-01-2020, 04:43 PM
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Congratulations on 2 weeks Rosie
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Old 10-01-2020, 05:35 PM
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thank you Anna and Dee. Today is day 16. I am going to bed sober tonight
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Old 10-01-2020, 05:45 PM
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I'm so happy to know you have 16 days, Rosie. We knew you could do it.
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Old 10-01-2020, 05:58 PM
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Hi Rosie - Congratulations on your 16 Days!!
So glad you are here! SR is a warm & welcoming place and finding it saved my life. I hope it's life changing for you too!
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Old 10-01-2020, 07:27 PM
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Congrats Rosie!
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Old 10-01-2020, 09:24 PM
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Congratulations Rosie!! Sixteen days is fantastic! ❤️
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Old 10-02-2020, 07:47 AM
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Thank you!! Day 17 today and I am very excited for the weekend to be off and able to rest and enjoy feeling pretty good.

I had drinking dreams all week. I had the shakes because I drank myself to a point of needing detox. I cannot go through that. Stay strong
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Old 10-02-2020, 11:25 AM
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Congrats on 17 days, Rosie!
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Old 10-02-2020, 11:41 AM
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Hi Gabe

I read your thread. We should be friends in early recovery! These early days are tough and doing it alone is too hard. I support you and encourage you to reach out if you want to drink - especially come friday
Sorry Rosie's, I just saw this! That would be great. I hope you are doing okay tonight. I have had some pretty intense cravings but managing to surf them hope you are doing okay xx
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Old 10-02-2020, 02:43 PM
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Rosie, big congrats on 17 days sober! Keep going, it gets better.
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Old 10-02-2020, 05:55 PM
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Sorry Rosie's, I just saw this! That would be great. I hope you are doing okay tonight. I have had some pretty intense cravings but managing to surf them hope you are doing okay xx
Hi Gabe! I have some cravings but I'm really gripped with fear that I will drink again. I've got to build my security in myself by being sober. I was at a very low point of suicidal ideation when I just left drinking recently and I don't ever want to have those terrifying feelings or thoughts again. No way! I'm getting help now and I am going to use it.

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Old 10-02-2020, 05:56 PM
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Rosie, big congrats on 17 days sober! Keep going, it gets better.
oh thank you least. I'm hanging on for my life, truly.
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Old 10-02-2020, 06:12 PM
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I'm really gripped with fear
Its understandable to feel that way but what really helped me was realising I don't have to do anything I don't want to do.
My addiction has no arms or legs - it needs my cooperation to get what it wants - if I refuse to give it that cooperation, there's literally nothing it can do about it

Sure it might cry and rage and scream but just like any toddler, it will tire itself out.

You're in the drivers seat here Rose

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Old 10-02-2020, 07:17 PM
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Hi Rosie. Congrats on 17 days. That is a stretch of recovery that is so important for your health. Those sober weeks build and build. Stay sober and post tomorrow morning about how it feels to wake up feeling good.
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Old 10-03-2020, 04:46 PM
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Its understandable to feel that way but what really helped me was realising I don't have to do anything I don't want to do.
My addiction has no arms or legs - it needs my cooperation to get what it wants - if I refuse to give it that cooperation, there's literally nothing it can do about it

Sure it might cry and rage and scream but just like any toddler, it will tire itself out.

You're in the drivers seat here Rose

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Yeah I was thinking that I don't need to hold onto a feeling of helplessness right now. I'm not helpless. thank you
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Old 10-04-2020, 07:18 PM
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Today is 19 days. Yesterday was a challenge for me. I just had those weekend cravings. I was happy last week keeping busy and focused during the day at work. The evenings are occupied with rest and relaxation post work: cooking, TV, book, exercise. Time is my friend.
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Old 10-04-2020, 07:30 PM
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Almost 3 weeks! The cravings will get less and less the longer you're sober. Keep going, it gets better, a little at a time.
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Old 10-05-2020, 09:16 PM
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Day 20. Moving forward is all we can do. I will choose the direction I go and, unlike years ago, now I do know the right way. I know the right thing to do so I gotta trust myself.
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Old 10-05-2020, 09:47 PM
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I gotta trust myself.
That was a big benefit of being sober - I could trust myself again. And others could trust me too.
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