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Old 09-11-2020, 06:49 AM
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Two Years Today!

Hello SR friends,

It's been awhile since I have posted actively in the forums. I will never forget the support that I received from this site, years of struggling to get sober, many DAY 1's and cries for help. I was greeted with kindness and understanding, each and every time. Thanks you all for that, for believing in me and giving me the strength to believe in myself. I'm 2 years sober today and celebrating my 50th Bday. What a gift I have given myself. Unconditional love, freedom from my past mistakes, and the ability to move forward with a new lease on life.

Thank you SR, you are a light in the darkness for many, I will always be grateful.
Blessings~
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Contrats on 2 years and happy birthday . Thank you for a very uplifting and inspirational post
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Congratulations on two years! It's so nice to see your positivity. We can all do this!
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Hi Wildflower - I had the privilege of being in the Sept 2018 group with you, Final Call and a few others...

I am so delighted you came back and told us. And I am absolutely delighted for you!!!

My story since then - I was sober 60 days in July 2018, then drank, then joined Sept 2018 with you but could only string together a few days or weeks. Gave up in 2019 repeatedly but no joy - then this year my wife of 20 years decided to leave me That shocked me in to action and I am now 6.5 months sober. She and I are just working out the practicalities of the separation (which has been hampered by Covid, of course!) and she is likely to leave the house next month.

If I had stuck with sobriety in the summer of 2018 my marriage probably would not have ended. But life just IS and I am learning to accept life on its terms, including my past, my mistakes and all weaknesses. As you can probably tell - I am actually doing alright
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Mega congrats! Good job sticking with it
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Be123,
Yes, I remember you and the struggles you were going through. I'm sorry that the road has been bumpy and your relationship has been strained. I am still trying to repair past relationships, it may or may not ever happen. What I can do is stay sober, for me, and continue to build the life I want and need. I am so happy you are doing that too!
Bless you on the journey.
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Happy freaking birthday and happy sober birthday!
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Congrats on two years! That's a great accomplishment. Onward and upward.
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Congrats on 2 years sober.
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I'm so happy for you that you are making sobriety stick. Well done.

Happy birthday!
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Wonderful post, Wildflower. Happy Birthday and congratulations on 2 years of recovery.
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Congrats! Awesome! And Happy Birthday!
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Happy Birthdays!!
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Congratulations on two years!!❤️
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Happy birthday and congrats on 2 years of sobriety. Thanks for the uplifting post.
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2 yrs. and a birthday - very proud of you, wildflower. I'm so glad you reclaimed your life.
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Congratulations on 2 years sober and Happy Birthday - an excellent double celebration!
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Originally Posted by wildflower70 View Post
What a gift I have given myself.
Yes it is a gift, and here's something more to celebrate on your 2 year anniversary. It's Friday night, and you won't be getting drunk. That was such a delightful experience for me early on, because I thought it was like a requirement to drink with impunity on Friday night, and all of a sudden I'm going to a meeting on a Friday night to celebrate being sober, while all my former "friends" were busy getting plastered. I had literally found something better to do. It made me happy like a little kid being taken to the park so I could play in the wading pool. Thanks for making me think about that again.
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Nice!
TWO thumbs-up for 2 years sobriety.
One high-five for the birthday.
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