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Old 09-02-2020, 07:08 AM
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8 Months

It’s been a rough few months with two deaths in the family. I’m home on bereavement leave now. But I feel an underlying sense of strength and gratitude for having gotten through it sober. I can reflect on my recent past with no regrets...no wondering about what my life could be like without alcohol because I’m here, on the other side. I’m still amazed that I actually made it this far. Sobriety is worth the effort hands down.

As always, so much gratitude to SR and all of the wonderful people here.
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Old 09-02-2020, 07:23 AM
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Congratulations for your 8 months sober and also very sorry for your losses. Getting through hard times and remaining sober is a challenge, it's wonderful to be able to recognize it!
You said it - 'Sobriety is worth the effort hands down.', no doubt about it!
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Old 09-02-2020, 07:54 AM
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Very sorry about the bereavements. Glad you stayed sober through it all. Congrats on 8 months.
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Old 09-02-2020, 08:42 AM
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Very sorry for your losses but well done on staying sober through it, you should be very proud of yourself!
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I'm sorry for the losses you endured but glad you stayed sober.
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8 mos. is wonderful, Sober45 - so proud of you. Especially for getting through a painful time without assuming alcohol would help. We know better.
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I'm sorry for you loss Sober45 but I'm thrilled you have 8 months - congratulations

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Old 09-02-2020, 07:17 PM
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High Five on your sobriety!!
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Congratulations on 8 months sober 🙏
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Old 09-03-2020, 02:18 AM
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Congratulations on 8 months sober, Sober45. Sorry for your family bereavements.
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Old 09-03-2020, 03:32 AM
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Stay strong, positive, responsible for your own
personal achievement in life and recovery as you
continue moving forward using the past to learn
from, today to live in and the future to grow towards.
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Old 09-03-2020, 04:08 AM
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Congrats on 8 months!
I too am sorry for your losses
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Old 09-03-2020, 04:51 AM
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Fantastic going!
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Old 09-03-2020, 04:55 AM
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I knew you could do it from the moment you set foot in this place.
Good on you!

Turns out the key is just sitting through that discomfort, no?
Be proud, very proud of yourself for doing that.

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Old 09-03-2020, 05:18 AM
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Keep it up Sober45!
It is a wonderful and massive achievement.
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Old 09-03-2020, 02:39 PM
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Congratulations Sober45!!!!😊
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Old 09-03-2020, 04:03 PM
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All journeys are different, but we seem to be following a similar timeline. I'm now 8 months sober and have sufferered bereavement and loss as well, and like you I made it. We made it. How good is that!

Congratulations Sober45.
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Old 09-03-2020, 04:28 PM
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Sober45, I'm very sorry for your loss. It's good to hear that you feel so positive and strong. Congratulations.
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Old 09-04-2020, 12:02 PM
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That's tough. Sorry to hear. Much respect for staying sober through it all.
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Old 09-06-2020, 10:48 PM
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Congratulations and great job staying sober through the hardship!
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