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Old 08-21-2020, 05:26 PM
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having hard time

im 11 months sober. im just not feeling it.
im fat, lazy... unmotivated... Yes, i can show up for my family and even my job...I miss happiness. Excitement...
Been skipping meetings because why..
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Old 08-21-2020, 05:32 PM
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Congrats on nearly a year sober! As to the 'not feeling it', I strongly suggest practicing gratitude every day. Being grateful makes me happy and more positive. Give it a try.
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Old 08-21-2020, 05:35 PM
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What is one thing you do that's good for you? Do you do it because you have to or because you enjoy it?
Just curious.
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Old 08-21-2020, 06:45 PM
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hey press - sorry you're feeling down.
being down and depressed and not doing anything about it is pretty dangerous for people like us..

Have you seen a doctor - or at least considered it?
Maybe posting here, and posting to others to help, regularly could help too?

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Old 08-22-2020, 08:35 AM
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I can relate somewhat. I fell off the wagon at about 11 months, and I do remember feeling like, "What's the point?" It's like you forget how much worse things were when you were drinking.

If I were you, I'd go back to meetings or do whatever keeps you from taking that first sip. There's very little "excitement." You just end up being a pathetic drunk again and feeling bad. I seem to have a hard time learning from my mistakes, but maybe you can.
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Old 08-22-2020, 09:54 PM
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I drank after over 7.5 months.
please don’t do it. It is misery
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