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Old 07-11-2020, 07:44 AM
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please help

I can't stop have never went this far all i do is drink and pass out.
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Old 07-11-2020, 07:47 AM
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Welcome, to SR Someday.

Have you ever tried to stop?
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Old 07-11-2020, 08:01 AM
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What would that help look like?
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Old 07-11-2020, 08:03 AM
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The only help I can offer from my keyboard is, "I understand. I've been there. I quit and you can too."
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Old 07-11-2020, 08:03 AM
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We're here to help you, and we definitely understand - can you tell us more?
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Old 07-11-2020, 08:41 AM
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thanks folks. To know that others care is all the help I need. Hopefully someday I will be back to try and help others.
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Old 07-11-2020, 08:46 AM
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Even if you are drinking someday147, stay on here and keep posting and reading. Something might click with you. It eventually does with so many. We do care too. And we understand. Your original post has passed all of our lips or been in all of our thoughts before.
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Old 07-11-2020, 08:48 AM
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Stick around. You are already helping others by doing so and help is being sent back in your direction by doing so.
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Old 07-11-2020, 09:53 AM
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Yes please stick around and commit to not drinking today. Then when tomorrow comes do it again. Don't overthink it.
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Old 07-11-2020, 09:57 AM
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There has never been a better time to quit and never drink again than right now. There's so many inspiring people here at SR, you can do it.
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Old 07-11-2020, 10:23 AM
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We really do care, and I'm glad you posted. Are you ready to stop drinking?
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Old 07-11-2020, 10:35 AM
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Your thread title says it all. Now is the time to get help and end the madness. What form that help takes is up to you. It might mean a hospital or rehab--for myself, I needed a few days at a (no-cost) detox. Help is available at AA meetings (mostly on-line now), and there are some for whom all the help they need is right here at SoberRecovery. Keep reading and posting!
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Old 07-11-2020, 10:43 AM
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Read everything you can get your hands on about quitting. Start with This Naked Mind. The more you understand about addiction the more you will be able to fight it. Try to read instead of drinking. When you want to drink, remember people like us NEVER have one or two drinks! Just keep telling yourself you are “putting off” that first drink of the day. Soon, instead of craving that first drink every day, you will start craving the feeling of waking up sober. Hope this helps.
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Old 07-11-2020, 10:48 AM
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We all understand and we all want to help. Coming here is a very good start...
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Old 07-11-2020, 11:40 AM
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It's really good you posted and I am sending some positive thoughts your way. Ask for what you need and we will all try to help and support you xxx
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Old 07-11-2020, 04:33 PM
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Someday why not stick around? post every day, join the Class of July support thread?
https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...rt-one-11.html

you could even look for help beyond us - most recovery methods have online meetings these days - not only AA but things like SMART or lifering too?

you could ask for help from your doctor or a counsellor too?

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Old 07-11-2020, 08:19 PM
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Drinking or not you need to stay and read and post. Gives you great information and support! Welcome.
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Old 07-12-2020, 06:37 AM
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Someday, I can't recommend getting into a 12 Step Program enough if you are not in one. I'd like to share with you what really helped me let go of my addiction. Maybe you can apply these ideas I am about to tell you in your life. The 2 things that enabled me to drop my addiction: 1. turning my life over to my Higher Power 2. Becoming more loving and helpful towards people.

Everyday I reaffirm that I am giving my life over to God, that I want him to come into my life, that I want to have a relationship with Him.

Becoming more loving started by posting positive messages on post it notes and leaving them in bathrooms and other public places. And then everyday I think of what I can to help someone that day or make their life easier. It has produced amazing results for me.
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Old 07-12-2020, 07:56 AM
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Thank you so much everyone. I stopped then the withdrawals where so scary I didn't know what to do, so unfortunately I can't see a way out. I rang a rehab place but there's no free one's and I don't have money. I am ready and willing to stop so going to find a way. Do or die for me it seems.
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Old 07-12-2020, 08:01 AM
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Someday if withdrawals are an issue seeing a doctor might help. Whenever I went to detox seeing a doctor was the first step
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