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Old 03-18-2020, 02:00 AM
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A strong economy will be little comfort if my father with an underlying condition dies at 65
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Old 03-18-2020, 02:31 AM
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Yeah I don't agree with your Dad WL.

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Old 03-18-2020, 03:31 AM
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It's now legal to buy alcohol in my country. AV going nuts. Not gonna drink
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Old 03-18-2020, 03:35 AM
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Old 03-18-2020, 04:55 AM
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Good day everyone.

Day one underway. Thought I'd feel worse actually, but the shakes are tough. Had to hold my morning coffee with both hands. I'm sure my wife noticed but she didn't mention it.

Dee, you are right. I get the f-its like many do, but there's something missing in my resolve. I tried AVRT but it didn't stick. That resolve will be key.

I'll keep this short, because even typing is shaky. Hopefully I'll escape the nausea. Stay the course everyone. I really need to make this stick this time and how cool would it be if we ALL get our drinking behind us for good!

PS: yes there was a run at the liquor stores last night. No time set for how long they'll stay closed. On the news they showed someone who had an entire shopping cart filled to overflowing. They left the person's face out of the frame.
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Old 03-18-2020, 05:11 AM
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Hi everyone I've just been for my appt with my mental health dr, and he thinks the crisis dr that diagnosis me with bipolar in November was wrong and thinks i actually have borderline personality disorder, he seemed to think this was better and more manageable ?! He says ppl with bpd are prone to binge drinking, not sure how true that is, but i do know for sure the only way i will get well is NOT drinking.
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Old 03-18-2020, 06:37 AM
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Good morning dear Tink. s xx ❤️

It sounds to me like this doctor is very caring and knowledgeable. s xx
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Old 03-18-2020, 06:41 AM
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Sending healing love dear Pelagic. s xx ❤️
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Had the first sneaky little voice from my AV today. Something going well with work and it popped up asking whether I was going to reward myself with drinking.

I'm not, obviously, but I'll make a note of this trigger. Something going well is a trigger for me, I'll beware of that and find another way to celebrate
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Does anyone else feel like, with Corona, all their personal problems now seem sort of trivial?
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Old 03-18-2020, 10:01 AM
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Originally Posted by freedomfries View Post
Does anyone else feel like, with Corona, all their personal problems now seem sort of trivial?
Freedom, I think most of my personal problems were a result of heavy drinking. I had anxiety counting down the hours until I could drink at night. I notice I don’t look at the time as often as I used to. Another personal problem was guilt about hiding my drinking. This also lead to unnecessary anxiety. Waking up in the morning and not remembering everything I said was another problem I don’t have to deal with anymore. We all need to relearn how to deal with things other than drinking or substances.
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Night all. Hope everyone is ok

It feels like a few people haven't posted for a few days. Would be good to hear from anyone reading the thread but not currently messaging themselves 👍

All schools closed as of next week and kids will be off for a long time. My life is on hold - I'm looking forward to a child-centred period of focussing on them and sobriety...potentially five months of that!!
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Night all. Hope everyone is ok

It feels like a few people haven't posted for a few days. Would be good to hear from anyone reading the thread but not currently messaging themselves 👍

All schools closed as of next week and kids will be off for a long time. My life is on hold - I'm looking forward to a child-centred period of focussing on them and sobriety...potentially five months of that!!
Hi be, yes my son will now be off from friday too, its all so bizzare and scary?! But i agree with you and looking forward to focusing on my little one, doing some home schooling with him and re-setting myself without any alcohol. Maybe this extra time with him can be a chance to redeem myself for all the time i was distant due to alcohol.

Hope everyone is safe and well
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Old 03-18-2020, 07:24 PM
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Day 5 has come to an end and I am feeling good. Working from home is going very well and my kids started online classes today and that went well. Didn’t leave the house except for a 1.5 mile hike with my husband. Peaceful is the best way to explain how I feel tonight. Not having to leave the house gives me such inner serenity....not having to deal with people is a nice change.
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Good morning on day 7. one week
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Congratulations FreedomFries - that's a great achievement

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Should make it to Monday no problem. The AV was strong yesterday evening so I went down town.and spent all my money on a mother's day gift and card. So broke til.monday
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I'm sure your mom will appreciate the gift

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Old 03-18-2020, 11:11 PM
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Should make it to Monday no problem. The AV was strong yesterday evening so I went down town.and spent all my money on a mother's day gift and card. So broke til.monday
Quite a good method FF, I hope she likes the gift and card!

Otter and tink it seems like we'll be doing some learning ourselves to keep up with the kids...

It's three weeks for me today. Not really celebrating that, just marking it quietly.

Had a very challenging therapy session yesterday. Being confronted with stuff is good but obviously hard too. I hope I can become more

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Three weeks is fantastic Be
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