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Old 01-24-2020, 07:16 AM
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I did it!! My update...

I dumped that ole $13 bottle of rum just a few minutes ago and I didn't even shed a tear that I thought I would lol. I know the obvious positives but hearing the benefits of quitting coming from you folks is what I need to hear. My husband hasn't been the emotional rock I needed this week... thank you all for your support Day 5 here, I will not drink today!
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Old 01-24-2020, 07:23 AM
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I'm glad to hear you got rid of the alcohol.

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Old 01-24-2020, 07:27 AM
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Great job! I just woke up to day 8 and I’m here for you too. We can do this!
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Old 01-24-2020, 07:29 AM
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Way to go! Whenever I do the right thing, I feel peace and serenity because I am in sync with my soul. My soul never leads me astray. My head, not so much. :~)
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Awesome Jen!

Pouring the last bottle of booze down the sink was the most empowering thing I could have done to start my new sober life.

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Old 01-24-2020, 08:54 AM
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Well done Jen !! I threw the last of my wine down the sink on Wednesday too, i was so absolutely disgusted with it. It did seem to cement that i am done with drinking
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Old 01-24-2020, 09:36 AM
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That's not easy to do RedheadJen. Congratulations.
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Old 01-24-2020, 09:40 AM
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Congrats on day 5.

We would love for you to join in on the January 2020 and weekenders threads.
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Old 01-24-2020, 09:58 AM
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I was pretty sure that this group was going to be my best shot at propper support in the beginning and it has helped tremendously. After two weeks though, I can tell a difference in my wife, like she is no longer feeding off of the stress and anxiety I had and is more at peace herself.
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Old 01-24-2020, 01:11 PM
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What? Thats alcohol abuse!!! Lol. No real talk good job you did the right thing the rest will follow. Come join me on my journey as well. I could use the company. ✌
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yay - that a great move Jen

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Wise of you, Jen. 5 days is fabulous - and each day you'll feel a little stronger & better.
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Old 01-24-2020, 03:58 PM
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Great job Jen! You are almost through that’s first week, keep reading and posting.
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Old 01-24-2020, 06:11 PM
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It feels good to dump alchohol! It would be great if we could get in a ring and physically beat on our alcoholism but this is about as close we get. You dumped part of my life down the drain now I dump you down the drain!
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Old 01-25-2020, 05:30 AM
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Originally Posted by RecklessDrunk View Post
It feels good to dump alchohol! It would be great if we could get in a ring and physically beat on our alcoholism but this is about as close we get. You dumped part of my life down the drain now I dump you down the drain!
Great analogy, thank you!
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Old 01-27-2020, 06:58 AM
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I wondered if you were ever going to do that.

After I quit I found an empty pint bottle under the front seat of my car. There was still a couple drops in it of residual whisky to sniff. I decided to keep the bottle as a sobriety trophy. Don't ask me why that should make any sense. I decided I would call it my last bottle before I quit, but I doubt it was the actual last bottle. I don't remember putting it under the seat, and I don't know how long it had been there. I finally threw it out years later when I sold my house and decided not to take it with me.

A couple years before I quit I found an unopened pint bottle under my car seat. I had no recollection of why I put it there or how long it was there. But I remember feeling like I had struck gold when I found it. It was like a free bottle. It got me thinking about my drinking a little bit. Hiding bottles is a sign of alcoholism, but losing them? What does that mean?
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Hows it going Jen?

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Old 01-28-2020, 08:03 AM
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Hows it going Jen?

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It's going a lot better, knock on wood!! I'm on day 8 now and feeling pretty good! I've been sleeping ALOT and it's a great, high quality sleep. My emotions are a little more in check, I'm not so weepy and anxious. It helps too that my husband and I had a talk the other night. He has been there for me but admits that it's hard because he is dying of a heart condition and sometimes thinks to himself, "boy I wish that is all I had to worry about, there is no cure for my heart." It went alot deeper than that but it really really put things into perspective for me.

I'm doing okay .thanks for asking!!
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Old 01-28-2020, 08:40 AM
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Right on Jen! Keep going day by day and things will get better more quickly then you can imagine.

Sober sleep is amazing and healing. Remember to eat whole, healthy food to rebuild as well.

You can do this!
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Nice one- well done on 8 day.
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