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I am coming to the end of a long and exhausting separation.
It has been another hell like situation.
Without having all the tools I gathered to battle the booze and stay sober I would have been bullied and abused for the rest of my life by both girlfriend and my Beast.
So proud of my achievements and how I have grown with each obstacle negotiated.
I move in to my new home on the 31st jan
I will make my daughter another bed and decorate the room with rainbows, unicorns and a pink carpet.
Build myself a workshop etc.
The things to do in life are endless now I’m a sober Dad.
We can have it all or we can drink but not both.
Take care everyone
It has been another hell like situation.
Without having all the tools I gathered to battle the booze and stay sober I would have been bullied and abused for the rest of my life by both girlfriend and my Beast.
So proud of my achievements and how I have grown with each obstacle negotiated.
I move in to my new home on the 31st jan
I will make my daughter another bed and decorate the room with rainbows, unicorns and a pink carpet.
Build myself a workshop etc.
The things to do in life are endless now I’m a sober Dad.
We can have it all or we can drink but not both.
Take care everyone
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Join Date: Oct 2018
Location: Christchurch, NZ
Posts: 517
Originally Posted by Snowydelrico 
I am coming to the end of a long and exhausting separation.
It has been another hell like situation.
Without having all the tools I gathered to battle the booze and stay sober I would have been bullied and abused for the rest of my life by both girlfriend and my Beast.
So proud of my achievements and how I have grown with each obstacle negotiated.
I move in to my new home on the 31st jan
I will make my daughter another bed and decorate the room with rainbows, unicorns and a pink carpet.
Build myself a workshop etc.
The things to do in life are endless now I’m a sober Dad.
We can have it all or we can drink but not both.
Take care everyone
It has been another hell like situation.
Without having all the tools I gathered to battle the booze and stay sober I would have been bullied and abused for the rest of my life by both girlfriend and my Beast.
So proud of my achievements and how I have grown with each obstacle negotiated.
I move in to my new home on the 31st jan
I will make my daughter another bed and decorate the room with rainbows, unicorns and a pink carpet.
Build myself a workshop etc.
The things to do in life are endless now I’m a sober Dad.
We can have it all or we can drink but not both.
Take care everyone
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Join Date: Jul 2015
Location: Soberville, USA
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It's funny that daily I find myself tumbling into regretful, angry, self loathing etc. feelings and thoughts.
Then I have to remember all the Things I used previously to resurface and take flight on a positive path.
I am confident this is common to the world.
It is more then dopamine chasing in that i have to accept my place in the universal pecking order.
There is growth potential always, but frustrated or spastic flailing will only make me fail faster and with a tired mind and body.
That AA prayer is a big deal.
Thanks.
Then I have to remember all the Things I used previously to resurface and take flight on a positive path.
I am confident this is common to the world.
It is more then dopamine chasing in that i have to accept my place in the universal pecking order.
There is growth potential always, but frustrated or spastic flailing will only make me fail faster and with a tired mind and body.
That AA prayer is a big deal.
Thanks.
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Join Date: Feb 2018
Location: Stockport/Greater Manchester/Cheshire
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Originally Posted by fishkiller
Sober Dad is the best Dad.
I wish I had realized that earlier.
Congrats on doing whats best for you and your daughter
I wish I had realized that earlier.
Congrats on doing whats best for you and your daughter
Thanks fish
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Originally Posted by Snowydelrico
I will make my daughter another bed and decorate the room with rainbows, unicorns and a pink carpet.
Build myself a workshop etc.
The things to do in life are endless now I’m a sober Dad.
Build myself a workshop etc.
The things to do in life are endless now I’m a sober Dad.
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