Surrendered19

If you did that in my state Jeff, you would be charged with felony assault and you would be staring down 12 years in state prison where we warehouse people like you - dangerous felons. Your story actually has the stench of bs. Any medical provider who put 100 stitches in a person's body would be a mandatory reporter to law enforcement and you would have immediately been snatched up by the cops. If you are lying to us and telling stories because you like the way they sound, please stop.

ShiftHappens

Deal with that rage and anger Jeff.

Work through it and let it go.

You might find your alcohol urges greatly reduced when you do.

Its insane to allow someone else to control your emotions like that.

When anyone can set you off like that, thats what they're doing. Controlling YOUR behavior and emotions.

HeadEast

This is disturbing. I really hope Jeff that you seek help from a mental health professional soon.

Pouncer

No words.

You need to get into rehab. I fear for you and the people around you.

Pouncer

This is where I am confused. It’s a major crime here, too. You need to turn yourself in and/or go to the ER. I can’t be a part of this thread. I wish you the best, Jeff,

Steely

I'm with Surrendered and Pouncer, Jeff.

I live in Australia and don't know your legal system. But you'd be in gaol here for sure, and I think we are a bit more forgiving. Lol.

Was it worth it?

Please advise.

HeadEast

I can't be a part of this thread either. Good luck Jeff.

Steely

It is the same for me Jeff.

I'm thinking that what you told us is not entirely true, and direct result of your mental health. If so, please see a doctor.

If all that you said is true I'm not interested in engaging with someone so violent. Violence repels me. Violence begets violence. You can keep it.

I have a history of 'violence towards women' and I find it disturbing.

I'm hoping this can all be resolved in your seeing a doctor.

Get well, Jeff.

Steely

I meant that the violence was perpetrated against me.

And a statue of limitations applies, so I can't take them to court.

I would if I could. Slam dunk,

Wastinglife

It's only a 'crime' if it's reported to police. Then in order for Thomas11 to be arrested and charged, his BIL would have to identify him. Given the circumstances, family dispute and all, police probably never got involved. People get in fights with random strangers all the time so police really don't care. BIL probably just said he got in a bar fight. Case closed.

Surrendered19

Wastinglife, as we should not give medical advice on this forum, we should not give legal advice, and you are dead wrong on ALL of the legal advice you just gave. A crime is a crime whether it is reported or not, and a victim of a crime does not have to identify anyone if others can. Family disputes leading to 100 stitches are prosecuted all of the time - in fact domestic violence is very prevalent and often prosecuted. Don't further enable Jeff's behavior by giving him what is very dangerous and very inaccurate legal advice about what he can and can't get in trouble for and what the authorities will care about or not.

Surrendered19

Also Wastinglife, forget about the legal system for a moment, which you obviously know nothing about. Isn't all of this dead wrong and shouldn't we as forum participants tell Jeff how wrong he is in all of this, hard stop, end of story?

Anna

Arguing with each other is not the point of this thread, so please stop.

We are here to offer support to Jeff.

Anna

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