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12-03-2019, 06:25 AM

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Lisalily

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Blamed for everything

I am sober but I hate myself so much right now. Everything that goes wrong is my fault. I’m so upset right now I am physically sick.

12-03-2019, 06:28 AM

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DriGuy

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Are you blaming yourself? Is someone else blaming you?

12-03-2019, 06:36 AM

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gypsytears

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Hi Lisalily. What’s got you so upset? It’s very early days for you right now, emotions can be all over the place. Quitting drinking is a huge thing. You’re doing that right

. If you’re physically sick it might be worth a call to your doctor.

12-03-2019, 06:36 AM

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Delilah1

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Hi Lisa,

I’m sorry you’re so upset right now. What’s going on? How can we help?

12-03-2019, 06:38 AM

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ClarkGrizwold

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things will get better just keep plugging away !!!

12-03-2019, 07:13 AM

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faith823

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Hi Lisalily,
I am so sorry you are feeling this way. I can tell by your posts you are a caring mother, hard worker, loving wife and trying to help yourself. I am very proud of you for posting here and becoming and staying sober with the stress you are feeling at the moment. Keep posting so many of the people on this board have gotten me the roughest/toughest of times when I just was so down on myself.

12-03-2019, 08:11 AM

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HeadEast

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Hi Lisa,

As said above, your emotions really are all over the place. Keep posting here. Everyone here wants to help you.

12-03-2019, 04:04 PM

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Dee74

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Not matter what other people tell you, or what you tell yourself, not everything is your fault LL.

Noone here can make you leave but I'm really sorry your domestic situation is so toxic for you.

we support you - you're not alone

12-04-2019, 07:56 AM

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Lisalily

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Thank you for the support and concern everyone and sorry I didn’t respond. I am okay today. It was a really bad rough morning. Today is a new better day. Continue to be sober. That is my first line of defense.

thank you for this community. It was helpful to get out my words and to see the kind responses.