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Old 10-15-2019, 10:25 PM
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Originally Posted by tomsteve View Post
ya might want to add read the bb and work the steps to:

Meetings? Check.
Praying? Check.
Reaching out for support? Check.
Sober? Check.
Exercising? Check.
Medicated? Check


ive seen it help many people go from stark raving sober to peaceful,serene, content
Worked steps? Check
Working with others? Check

Two missing, but vital, ingredients for your check list.
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Old 10-15-2019, 10:30 PM
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Working the steps? Check.
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Old 10-15-2019, 11:40 PM
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So how many guys are you sponsoring?
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Old 10-16-2019, 06:41 AM
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Originally Posted by Gottalife View Post
So how many guys are you sponsoring?
Zero. I’ve been sober for two weeks.
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Old 10-16-2019, 02:16 PM
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Sorry mate, I misread "working the steps" for "worked the steps". Two weeks in can be bumpy. I found for myself that when I decided that finding or getting this higher power thing through the steps was the real priority and I began earnestly seeking, the thought of a drink stayed away, even though there were many ups and downs in my emotional state. Bu the 90 day mark I was into step nine when I suddenly realised I had gone all that time without any serious urge to drink, and everything has changed. The problem had been removed and, so far, has not come back.

The pace at which I worked the steps, an average of one a week, was lightening fast by today's standards, yet quite slow compared to how they did things back when the recovery rate was much higher.

So when you checked "working the steps" what does that look like?
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