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Old 08-30-2019, 07:41 PM
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but I can no longer be the person who likes IPAs or who is a fan of (insert whatever) brewery. It's hard to suddenly give these things up because they've become such a part of who I am.

think about your eulogy or your gravestone....is ^^^^ what you want it to say? maybe think about what ELSE is awesome about you.....that has nothing to do with the type of beer you like?
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Old 08-30-2019, 07:56 PM
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Originally Posted by freshout View Post
"Grey area drinking" is definitely a term. Just google it. It fits for me. In fact it might be easier to give up drinking if I had a clear rock bottom or got into trouble with the law or was confronted by friends/family. None of that has happened to me. While I'm NOT saying that people who have experienced any of those things have it easy, I do think it makes it very black and white.
I thought that too. I even thought it when I was drinking all day everyday - 'I can still manage this'.

It took me 20 years of pain and misery to myself and those I loved before I finally accepted that alcohol and I had a fundamentally toxic relationship and that abstinence was the only way for me to live the life I wanted to lead.

You can decide that now or 20 years time, assuming you survive the wait.

I vote for now.

Wikipedia entry or not, 'grey area drinking' sounds like weasel words for a particular kind of denial to me, freshout.

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