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Old 05-26-2019, 07:04 PM
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RIP my mate Joe

Joe wasn't a member here for anyone wondering.

I first met him about 30 years ago, he was in my sisters year at school and part of a musical gang I was part of.

We scattered as school friends do, but he stayed on the periphery of my life and me on his - once or twice a year we'd meet up as part of something else and we never had to reestablish our kinship, we always picked up where we left off.

He was kind and thoughtful - a true philosopher and a good bloke. Always the first to lend a hand or reach out when he noticed something wrong. It came naturally to him.

He never seemed to age in the good sense - he was still that optimistic funny bright eyed 17 yo.

But...he also drank too much and took way too many drugs. Always did, never stopped.

After not being able to rouse him for a week his friends sent the police out on a welfare check and found him dead. Autopsy to follow.

Gone at 48.
way too soon Joe, way too soon.

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Old 05-26-2019, 07:11 PM
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So sorry Dee.

I've lost some close friends to drink too. A deep pain from so much goodness and potential trampled by addiction.
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Old 05-26-2019, 07:15 PM
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I'm so sorry D and sorry for Joe too.
Please take care. Let's all count our blessings today.
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Peace to Joe.
Hugs to you, Dee
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Old 05-26-2019, 07:18 PM
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I’m so sorry Dee.
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Old 05-26-2019, 07:19 PM
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That's so sad, sorry for another loss that may have been prevented.
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Old 05-26-2019, 07:20 PM
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ah Dee, condolences to you.
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Old 05-26-2019, 07:22 PM
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Yes, that is way too young to die. Blessings to his family and friends.
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Sorry for your loss Dee .
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Old 05-26-2019, 07:48 PM
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I'm so sad to hear about your friend, Joe.

My condolences, Dee.
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Old 05-26-2019, 07:57 PM
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So sorry to hear that Dee,

My condolences, and may Joe RIP.


(((hugs)))
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Old 05-26-2019, 08:00 PM
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So sorry for your loss, Dee. Take care of yourself.

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Old 05-26-2019, 08:13 PM
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I’m so sorry about the loss of your friend Dee. Sending lots of hugs your way, and condolences to you, and Joe’s family and friends. That is how old I am, definitely way too young.
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Old 05-26-2019, 08:20 PM
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So sorry for your loss Dee. Prayers to you, his family and friends.
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Old 05-26-2019, 08:21 PM
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Dee, that is so sad. I hope that Joe finds some peace, and I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Old 05-26-2019, 08:24 PM
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I'm sorry for that, Dee.
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Old 05-26-2019, 08:26 PM
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My heartfelt condolences Dee. That's gotta smart... a lot.
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Old 05-26-2019, 08:31 PM
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Thanks everyone.

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Old 05-26-2019, 09:10 PM
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Awww I am sorry to read this Dee. We really are the lucky ones. R.I.P Joe.
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