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Old 05-23-2019, 09:29 PM
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I'm alive. Had a slip. Coming back.

I know. I know.
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Old 05-23-2019, 09:40 PM
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Welcome back.

Congrats on day one
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Old 05-23-2019, 09:58 PM
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Old 05-23-2019, 10:08 PM
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good to see you back Press
whats your plan?

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Old 05-23-2019, 10:16 PM
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I'm glad you're back, Press.
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Old 05-24-2019, 03:59 AM
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You made it back, that's the important thing. Onward and upward.
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Old 05-24-2019, 04:06 AM
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Start again only wiser! You can do this!!
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Old 05-24-2019, 04:32 AM
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Welcome back. Coming back is already a huge success.
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Old 05-24-2019, 05:27 AM
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no such thing as a "slip"--just a conscious and calculated decision to relapse.
I've done it plenty of times myself--don't soften the reality or it will never change.

Glad you are back--what will you be doing differently this time?
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Old 05-24-2019, 05:51 AM
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Really good to see you, Press.

Get back on that horse, make a plan, and put it into action. You can do this.
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Old 05-24-2019, 06:25 AM
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Originally Posted by Hawkeye13 View Post
no such thing as a "slip"--just a conscious and calculated decision to relapse.
I've done it plenty of times myself--don't soften the reality or it will never change.

Glad you are back--what will you be doing differently this time?
Agreed - and very glad you are back Press.

Like the others asked - what is the plan this time, and how will it be different?

Whether you drank once, or longer (sorry, I can't remember when you last posted being sober), you have another chance. One thing I hear a lot that rings true is that a relapse starts well before the actual drink.

Glad you are here.
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Old 05-24-2019, 06:46 AM
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Glad to see you made it back. Not everyone does. Keep that in mind, please?
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Old 05-24-2019, 07:53 AM
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You are necessary!

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Old 05-24-2019, 08:05 AM
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Happy you are back, unfortunately not everyone gets that chance. Hope you use this opportunity to think about what you can do different this time. Really hope that doesn't sound judgemental. It's just had someone from my homegroup pass away last week, so really shows how any relapse can be the end.
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Old 05-24-2019, 09:25 AM
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​​​​​ you know as well as anybody it's the same old song and dance until it isn't the same old song and dance. It's good you back, so many of us have drank again after wanting to quit for good. What are you going to do different this time?
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Old 05-24-2019, 10:10 AM
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Yes. It was calculated. I can own that. What can do differently? I can not go too hard on one thing. I need to take it slow.
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Old 05-24-2019, 10:44 AM
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Originally Posted by Pressmetilihurt View Post
I can not go too hard on one thing. I need to take it slow.
I would argue that you can never go "too hard" on your sobriety work. Once I unquestionable accepted that sobriety was my #1 priority over anything else in my life, things got a lot easier. That's not an easy thing to do of course - but it is possible, and its very much in your power to make that choice.
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Old 05-24-2019, 10:51 AM
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I dig that ^ unquestionably accepting sobriety is the #1 priority.

Im glad ur here too press im on day 6 and am here for u.
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Old 05-24-2019, 12:20 PM
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Glad you're here, Press.
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Old 05-24-2019, 12:37 PM
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Originally Posted by Hawkeye13 View Post
no such thing as a "slip"--just a conscious and calculated decision to relapse.
I've done it plenty of times myself--don't soften the reality or it will never change.

Glad you are back--what will you be doing differently this time?

This may come across as a bit harsh, but it is not. I agree with hawkeye, we must not soften the reality.

Sobriety is a life changing event in my opinion.
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