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Old 05-15-2019, 06:30 AM
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Day 260, My Day of Birth.

Day 260 if my sobriety.
Over 37 weeks of not having a drop to drink.
Seems a lot longer than that.
Seems like an entirely different life.
Sobriety seems normal now.

Today is also my 32nd birthday.
Past birthday routine: Get drunk.
Way drunk. Blackout drunk. Regretful drunk.
This year is going to be so different.
Bought a new kayak.
Going to run my first 5k.
Celebrating my life.
Celebrating still being alive.

32 years old.
I'm told I have about two more years left.
I accept that, but I'm not dying until I'm done living, and right now, I'm just getting the living started.
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Happy Birthday and good luck on your 5K.

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Happy Birthday!

I just got a kayak, too. Hoping to get it in the water this weekend. Weather permitting. Good luck on the 5k!
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Have a great Birthday and congrats on the sober time!
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Old 05-15-2019, 07:02 AM
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Wishing you an absolutely fantastic Birthday and huge congratulations on such a big sober milestone.
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Happy Birthday and congrats on your sober time.

Every day is a gift for all of us and so I'm hoping for some kind of miracle about your prognosis. I've seen miracles happen.

Kayaking sounds pretty great!

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Old 05-15-2019, 07:29 AM
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Happy Birthday WhoDeyPI.

I'm with Bim ~ miracles can and do happen.

Great new aviator pic.
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Old 05-15-2019, 07:57 AM
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Originally Posted by WhoDeyPI View Post
Day 260 if my sobriety.
Over 37 weeks of not having a drop to drink.
Seems a lot longer than that.
Seems like an entirely different life.
Sobriety seems normal now.

Today is also my 32nd birthday.
Past birthday routine: Get drunk.
Way drunk. Blackout drunk. Regretful drunk.
This year is going to be so different.
Bought a new kayak.
Going to run my first 5k.
Celebrating my life.
Celebrating still being alive.

32 years old.
I'm told I have about two more years left.
I accept that, but I'm not dying until I'm done living, and right now, I'm just getting the living started.
Values and purpose are the main navigational tools in life (or should be). Congrats on your values trumping your addiction.
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Old 05-15-2019, 08:08 AM
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Originally Posted by Kaily View Post
Happy Birthday WhoDeyPI.

I'm with Bim ~ miracles can and do happen.

Great new aviator pic.
Thank you. I figure I would show off my new sobriety tattoo. Plus, that pic was taken over the weekend, and it was the first time in YEARS I was confident enough to go shirtless in public. 37 lbs lost, 13 to go!
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Old 05-15-2019, 09:54 AM
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Happy Birthday and keep going!
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Old 05-15-2019, 11:30 AM
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Happy birthday and congratulations on all you have achieved and creating a new fantastic life for yourself
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Old 05-15-2019, 12:17 PM
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Happy birthday son 😝😜 mines tomorrow x
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Old 05-15-2019, 12:50 PM
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Happy bday who dey. Thanks for the inspirational post. Amazing stuff.
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Old 05-15-2019, 01:51 PM
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Happy birthday son 😝😜 mines tomorrow x
Sorry that I forgot mothers day....but I WON'T forget your birthday!
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Congratulations, WhoDey - and I love the new avie too!
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Old 05-15-2019, 03:46 PM
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Happy Birthday, may you celebrate many more.

Doctors can get it often wrong too and you're on the best track you can be on.

All the best!
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Wow, Happy Birthday!!! You have accomplished so much being sober. You look amazingly healthy and happy too. Glad you can celebrate with a clear mind.

I honestly see so many miracles in medicine, that I don't think you should feel like you have to live with a time stamp on your life. We never know what will happen to any of us. I said good bye to my dad on life support a few years ago, and he proved the docs wrong and came out of it and is going strong in his 70s. Live every day and enjoy every day. You are making healthy choices and your mind is clear. Get in some hikes with that hiking dog buddy this weekend to celebrate.
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Old 05-16-2019, 05:10 AM
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Wow, Happy Birthday!!! You have accomplished so much being sober. You look amazingly healthy and happy too. Glad you can celebrate with a clear mind.

I honestly see so many miracles in medicine, that I don't think you should feel like you have to live with a time stamp on your life. We never know what will happen to any of us. I said good bye to my dad on life support a few years ago, and he proved the docs wrong and came out of it and is going strong in his 70s. Live every day and enjoy every day. You are making healthy choices and your mind is clear. Get in some hikes with that hiking dog buddy this weekend to celebrate.
You the best! I really do need to get back into the doctor to check on my progress, and perhaps they'll see improvement and give me a new prognosis? Idk, I'm kind of scared to go. What if all my progress still has resulted in the same prognosis? And also, what if they say, "you're cured, it's a miracle!" and that opens to door to my AV again....yikes!
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You have come way to far to give into that AV for ANY reason. Good or bad. It probably wouldn't hurt to check in with the doc and see where you are at anyway. I would think they would want to be following up routinely so they can monitor your labs etc?
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