False accusations led to break up
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False accusations led to break up
Screamed and shouted at, been called a lier, a cheat, an evil psychopath.
All my clothes have been put in the spare room and she is trying to kick me out of my own home.
Guess that’s what comes of going on my own to see my terminally ill mum on her birthday.
I’m sure things will work out on our own separate paths.
I’ve seen this coming for a long time.
Better off apart.
So glad I have the clarity to see what’s going on and make the right choices to go forward.
All my clothes have been put in the spare room and she is trying to kick me out of my own home.
Guess that’s what comes of going on my own to see my terminally ill mum on her birthday.
I’m sure things will work out on our own separate paths.
I’ve seen this coming for a long time.
Better off apart.
So glad I have the clarity to see what’s going on and make the right choices to go forward.
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That's rough mate. Of course I don't know your circumstances, but I have had a few rough breaks on this journey. Kicked out of a couple of relationships, lost a job or two, done a few stupid things. I got through I guess because I put first things first, and my sobriety came first because without it, there would be nothing else.
Sorry to hear about your mum too. I hope she is at least comfortable, and no doubt she will be happy to see you sober.
Sorry to hear about your mum too. I hope she is at least comfortable, and no doubt she will be happy to see you sober.
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Thanks gottalife
She’s a little more comfortable now she’s changed meds.
Yes she’s very happy to know I’ve quit the booze for good.
But worries that my now ex will take everything and leave me rock bottom.
Told her I’d be alright. And that if I was still drinking I’d be on the train tracks now!
Just tired out from it all.
Had a week of it now so I think I’m over the hump.
Going to rest up today and do light duties.
She’s a little more comfortable now she’s changed meds.
Yes she’s very happy to know I’ve quit the booze for good.
But worries that my now ex will take everything and leave me rock bottom.
Told her I’d be alright. And that if I was still drinking I’d be on the train tracks now!
Just tired out from it all.
Had a week of it now so I think I’m over the hump.
Going to rest up today and do light duties.
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Originally Posted by Snowydelrico 
Screamed and shouted at, been called a lier, a cheat, an evil psychopath.
All my clothes have been put in the spare room and she is trying to kick me out of my own home.
Guess that’s what comes of going on my own to see my terminally ill mum on her birthday.
I’m sure things will work out on our own separate paths.
I’ve seen this coming for a long time.
Better off apart.
So glad I have the clarity to see what’s going on and make the right choices to go forward.
All my clothes have been put in the spare room and she is trying to kick me out of my own home.
Guess that’s what comes of going on my own to see my terminally ill mum on her birthday.
I’m sure things will work out on our own separate paths.
I’ve seen this coming for a long time.
Better off apart.
So glad I have the clarity to see what’s going on and make the right choices to go forward.
Mate, that is harsh. Always about for a chat if ever you need it, you've always been in my corner 😊
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Originally Posted by Gottalife
Of course I don't know your circumstances, but I have had a few rough breaks on this journey. Kicked out of a couple of relationships, lost a job or two, done a few stupid things. I got through I guess because I put first things first, and my sobriety came first because without it, there would be nothing else.
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Wading through the quagmire.
Asking to be civil and still getting flack.
But I seem to be gaining a little bit of ground.
Have to book in at citizens advice to see where I stand with the house and my daughter.
One step at a time,
If there’s one thing I’m good it it’s that.
Asking to be civil and still getting flack.
But I seem to be gaining a little bit of ground.
Have to book in at citizens advice to see where I stand with the house and my daughter.
One step at a time,
If there’s one thing I’m good it it’s that.
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Originally Posted by Hawkeye13
Hang in there Snowy--keeping calm on your side and reasonable will pay off in many ways.
I’m a little annoyed at myself for that. But there’s been a lot of pressure on me. A person has a limit to what they can take I suppose.
I did apologise for my outburst.
I will bear your wise words in mind next time I begin to slide.
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I knew a guy who got sober and his wife wanted a divorce after three months of him quitting, she couldn’t blame everything on him anymore. He got divorced and stayed sober through it all. Try to keep the turbulence to a minimum early on, don’t make major decisions. Maybe awhile with your mom and some time away from each other will give it perspective.
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