Should I get a sponsor?
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Should I get a sponsor?
I've been avoiding it because I always feel like I **** it up.
Worried maybe the pressure is too much. At the same time it's hard to be out here, trying to do this
. I think I need someone with clear structure. "Call at this time", etc dunno
Worried maybe the pressure is too much. At the same time it's hard to be out here, trying to do this
. I think I need someone with clear structure. "Call at this time", etc dunno
I've been avoiding it
worried what pressure is too much- the pressure of drinking or the pressure of recovery?
you may NEED structure, but youve NEEDED that for a long time.
you have to WANT it. you have to WANT to get sober and be WILLING to go to ANY lengths for it- even if that means getting a sponsor to help guide you through the steps so you can experience a spiritual awakening.
If you're committed to doing AA, then yes I think a sponsor would help you. I wasted a lot of time early on in AA just talking about all my problems at meetings. Once I started to do the work of the steps under the guidance of a sponsor, things changed. I was able to grow and change.
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